Sometimes I find myself wondering about this prolonged status as a single woman, wondering if the level of scrutiny and skepticism placed upon men I have encountered has been a little too much. While chatting with a long-time friend about this, I was reminded of all of the ridiculous experiences from my past, particularly the… Read More A Different Kind of Infidelity: Cyber Cheating (Part 1 of 2)
He didn’t have any standards, so she kept lowering hers. … Read More The Death of Dating
Those mixed feelings of excitement and nausea when an old flame reaches out to you after a lot of time has passed. Do you ignore or take the bait?… Read More The Ghost of F@ck Boys Past
There are a few things you should know about how to respond to some online messages.… Read More Respond, Ignore or Block?
No matter how good looking or well off he may be, no one likes a jerk. … Read More Who Wants to Date a Jerk?
It’s amazing how men think they can just disappear and pop back into your life like it’s nothing. But this hangover thought wrong and caught me on the sober end of taco Tuesday. Grab your headphones and get ready to LISTEN to a raw and UNEDITED explanation of why I sent that venomous text in… Read More Reappearing Act Gone Wrong
I know, I know- I can’t just drop a screen shot like this and not explain but I’m on my way out the door. Besides, I haven’t even shared the update on my felonious friend I told you about last time. So for now, let’s just say Jon B. won’t be trying to “get together”… Read More I’ve got some ‘splaining to do…
Where do you draw a line in the sand that separates judgment from an inability to relate? It seems as if a lot of the men trying to date are in situations that make it hard for a woman to want to deal with them.… Read More Dating Someone Who’s Been to Prison
When people confuse the profile as an autobiographical novel…… Read More Could this be the LONGEST one EVER?
When it comes to the dating buffet known as online dating, some of us try getting way too creative with our profiles. We lie.… Read More The Lies Women Tell
My swirly stint with Jon B is over! It became too confusing trying to decipher his mixed signals when he’s doing one thing but continuously tells me that he wants to “take things slow” What the hell does that mean?!?! Not once did I press him with one of those “what’s next” or “what are you looking for” conversations,… Read More And just like that…
While contemplating my next move with Jon B, I’m realizing that aside from him being cute and seemingly good on paper, we really don’t have that much in common or at least nothing else that I can tell because he doesn’t talk about much. Sure, we both enjoy eating and indulging in cocktails, but other than that I only… Read More Program Change
So it’s been a few weeks of this swirling dating adventure with Jon B and I have a few observations to report. No, not THE actual R&B crooner hottie himself but as much as the new guy hates being told, that’s exactly who he favors. 😍😍😍😍😍 The Look a Like and I met on a… Read More Down with the Swirl- Part 2
Years ago when people actually read email forwards, I remember one that had been circulated quite a few times. It was called the 12 types of men and while it was really targeted a more”urban” audience with its references to thugs and baby daddies, but still had a few on there that everyone could relate to. Having… Read More Types of Men to Avoid When Dating
Everything about this latest situation is different. I woke up this morning to both dogs at the foot of the bed; Thelma on his side and Louise on my side. Every now and then, feeling each one turning around head as if to make sure we’re in our spot. After snapping the photo of our… Read More Down with the Swirl