The Death of Dating

The Death of Dating

He didn’t have any standards,  so she kept lowering hers. She stopped caring about making a good first impression, so he stopped taking a last look in the mirror before walking out the door. She stopped requiring a phone call, and agreed to dares through a string of text messages . We’re all guilty of ruining the dating scene- both men and women. Interested in reading more about how we’ve gone from searching for the…

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The Ghost of F@ck Boys Past

The Ghost of F@ck Boys Past

They say when you close one door, another one opens. But isn’t that new door supposed to come with something new, different or better than the last? Any leftover energy is released and I’m increasing my chances of meeting and dating a really great man. This is how it should work. So if I absolutely decimated the relationship with one man because it was no longer healthy for me, the next man that makes contact…

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Reappearing Act Gone Wrong

Reappearing Act Gone Wrong

It’s amazing how men think they can just disappear and pop back into your life like it’s nothing.  But this hangover thought wrong and caught me on the sober end of taco Tuesday. Grab your headphones and get ready to LISTEN to a raw and UNEDITED explanation of why I sent that venomous text in my last post. This is my first time trying a podcast style post, so don’t judge me. I was pissed….

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And just like that…

And just like that…

My swirly stint with Jon B is over! It became too confusing trying to decipher his mixed signals when he’s doing one thing but continuously tells me that he wants to “take things slow” What the hell does that mean?!?! Not once did I press him with one of those “what’s next” or “what are you looking for” conversations, not once.  While he’s repeating his mantra of wanting to take it slow, he should have just said he’s not interested in…

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Program Change 

Program Change 

While contemplating my next move with Jon B, I’m realizing that aside from him being cute and seemingly good on paper, we really don’t have that much in common or at least nothing else that I can tell because he doesn’t talk about much.   Sure, we both enjoy eating and indulging in cocktails, but other than that I only know that he’s hustling to expand his business, takes a lot of naps and feels slighted that his daughter isn’t too…

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Down with the Swirl- Part 2

Down with the Swirl- Part 2

So it’s been a few weeks of this swirling dating adventure with Jon B and I have a few observations to report. No, not THE actual  R&B crooner hottie himself but as much as the new guy hates being told, that’s exactly who he favors. 😍😍😍😍😍 The Look a Like and I met on a Wednesday, went out that Friday, Saturday AND again that Sunday.  Repeat the following week and again.  What does this mean?…

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Types of Men to Avoid When Dating 

Types of Men to Avoid When Dating 

Years ago when people actually read email forwards, I remember one that had been circulated quite a few times.  It was called the 12 types of men and while it was really targeted a more”urban” audience with its references to thugs and baby daddies, but still had a few on there that everyone could relate to. Having become a seasoned dater, I can honestly say that I’ve probably dated every type of man there is – both…

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Down with the Swirl

Everything about this latest situation is different.  I woke up this morning to both dogs at the foot of the bed; Thelma on his side and Louise on my side.  Every now and then, feeling each one turning around head as if to make sure we’re in our spot. After snapping the photo of our guardians, I turned over to study the intricate design of his tatted back.  I love the way his olive skin…

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When The Texts Stop Coming

When The Texts Stop Coming

I think it’s fair to say that we’ve all been in a situation where we met someone new, exchanged numbers and after a few text messages, felt like things may be going in the right direction.  But then the communication starts changing a little bit or those texts stop altogether, leaving you wondering what went wrong and I’m sorry fellas – the men are normally on the receiving end of this confusion. But have you…

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