Down with the Swirl- Part 2

Down with the Swirl- Part 2

So it’s been a few weeks of this swirling dating adventure with Jon B and I have a few observations to report. No, not THE actual  R&B crooner hottie himself but as much as the new guy hates being told, that’s exactly who he favors. 😍😍😍😍😍 The Look a Like and I met on a …

Down with the Swirl

Everything about this latest situation is different.  I woke up this morning to both dogs at the foot of the bed; Thelma on his side and Louise on my side.  Every now and then, feeling each one turning around head as if to make sure we’re in our spot. After snapping the photo of our …

When The Texts Stop Coming

When The Texts Stop Coming

I think it’s fair to say that we’ve all been in a situation where we met someone new, exchanged numbers and after a few text messages, felt like things may be going in the right direction.  But then the communication starts changing a little bit or those texts stop altogether, leaving you wondering what went …

I Can Work with Men

I Can Work with Men

The funny thing about dating is that there are so many different types of men and situations out there so you really are placed in a position of picking your poison. My last date from a few months ago really had it together. He owned a couple of properties, had a stable career with no …

Too Soon?

Too Soon?

EXCLUSIVITY Related to exclusivity: Mutual exclusivity ex·clu·sive  (ĭk-sklo͞o′sĭv) adj. 1. Excluding or tending to exclude: exclusive barriers. 2. Not allowing something else; incompatible: mutually exclusive conditions. 3. Not divided or shared with others: exclusive publishing rights. 4. Not accompanied by others; single or sole. It’s late and as I’m ready to call it a night, …

Happy Valentine’s Day

Happy Valentine’s Day

Someone who’s been crushing on me since the 9th grade just posted this on my wall.  Such a sweetheart of a guy, who’s smart, kind,  intelligent and…. Very married. It always seems to work out that way but, still -a nice gesture. I hope the lovers are enjoying the day and my singletons as well. …

Single With Benefits

Single With Benefits

I’m still here and yes, still single. This chick here has been quite busy over the holidays and am just now starting to get into the swing of things after ending the year trying to knock out some of my goals that I’d set which included the usual suspects such as:  losing weight, saving money, …

Great First Dates

Great First Dates

We might have a winner! We might have a winner! We might have a winner! In case the point isn’t being emphasized enough, I think we might have a winner so let’s just call him Winner! Last night’s date was a smashing success and even better, the feeling is mutual since we ended the night …