I’m not sure what has come over me lately, but since having given up any potential ANYTHING with the lingering hangovers, my hormones have been on overload. More like on speed. Or even meth.
So while one part of me is contemplating the dive back into the world of dating tonight, another part of me is saying “Last week needs to be an encore”.
As I struggle with deciding which of the goodies in my top drawer I’ll end up with, the color I love the most ends up being the winner – purple. Satin.
But wait just a moment, I’m jumping ahead a hit. Here is what a woman is thinking when she’s feeling freaky, ready for pleasing and multiple orgasmic adventures for herself and her partner.
Tonight, Papi is coming to me and as I await his arrival I realize there is actually a process to preparing for sex. Sometimes. For some women. At least those of us who like to make it more than just an act, but more of an art. Here’s what I realized the ritual may consist of…
Oh you better believe this isn’t just any shower when preparing for a naughty night. Women take extra care in washing up, especially the cookie jar and will likely lather up her entire body three or four times.
Yes, I said a shower. Unless you’re only up for a quick session, a bath is like cancer to my libido. Standing, with water running all over your body does a little something extra and of course – if you have the removable shower head? Well, you can use your imagination for that.
The body cream:
Applying the favorite Bath & Body works or body butter is purely a treat to a woman’s body. It’s like how a man might feel when waxing his new car. Slow and methodical, taking care to ensure no surface is left untouched and again, taking extra care of certain areas. We are mentally preparing for what is about to happen, and something as simple as applying lotion or cream is a form of foreplay. Believe it.
I don’t know if the types of men I’ve been involved with simply adore bare flesh or what, but the matching bra and panties thing is SO over rated. Yet here I am pondering which set to wear knowing that from the moment the door opens, they will be snapped off and pulled down. Still, if we actually have an opportunity to prepare, women will always choose the sexiest and most feminine attire to put on.
My toughest decision? Shoes.
Tonight will I will be playing the character of an exotic dancer and Papi will be my best customer.
Body is fresh and glistening, just a dab of gloss and hair is tousled just a bit. Music is going.
A good man will recognize the fruits of a woman’s labor. He might compliment her on the lacy bra, sexy panties or skin that feels silky to the touch. He may compliment you on your inviting smell or simply nuzzle his nose in the nape of her neck.
I’m ready for a little C.A.N. – Carmen Appreciation Night.
Until there’s a cure for the hangovers, until I am blissfully in love or at least enjoying a drama free dating life, I’ll be enjoying the ride.