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It’s an Epidemic!

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A few weeks ago I was enjoying lunch with a group of friends.  One says she couldn’t understand why a beautiful woman who was also classy, smart and well-rounded could be single.  So very, very single.  She hears some of the stories but doesn’t know the full extent of the dating nightmares.

Another friend sat quietly and then said how she couldn’t wait until the right caliber of man, with HIS shit together came around.  She is a follower of the blog and knows of all the gritty, behind the scenes stories.

The screenshot above was snagged from a Facebook post the night before last and not surprisingly, the woman who posted it caught hell.  From the men, several of which telling her how she will remain single because she is expecting too much,  being judgemental and was a turn off.

My dating profile isn’t as blunt as the statement above, however I do mention the type of man preferred.  So of course with my luck, every now and then some asshole wants to lodge a complaint because I viewed them profile and kept going.  Yesterday,  this brother (isn’t it always) messages me with the “you’re judgmental” and “accept a man as he is and just build him up”.   So now I have to build a man like build a bear?!?!?!

These men need to get a grip on reality!  What woman would find anything appealing in the Facebook post from above?  Surely not one of substance and surely,  not me.

Until there’s a cure….

Carmen Jones

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