The funny thing about dating is that there are so many different types of men and situations out there so you really are placed in a position of picking your poison. My last date from a few months ago really had it together. He owned a couple of properties, had a stable career with no… Read More I Can Work with Men
The short version of my recent meet up: He messaged me, I responded. He responded, then I responded and we exchanged numbers and he then texted to me and I responded and he said let’s get together later, and I said okay to a meet up at Starbucks which I hate for meet ups, we… Read More Stay Away From This Guy
“So um hypothetically speaking, let’s say you and I keep doing this right here you know and after about three months we’re in a really cool place. Does that mean you’ll eventually close out your dating account or do we have that conversation when you feel like you’re ready?” Blank stare. “I’m ready, you know what… Read More 3 Signs the Date Wasn’t So Great
Hangovers aren’t really feelings you ever want to return but every now and then, I just might entertain the idea of being entertained. It’s been several years since I’ve been seen the one called The Black Russian, but we have both been in and out of the online dating scene so we have chatted briefly a time… Read More The Come Back Charlie’s
This post is dedicated to any woman who thought she was being too picky, said no too quickly or even said these dreaded “may as well” when going out with someone she should have ignored and deleted. It’s going to be a long one, so grab your coffee and take a seat. On the surface,… Read More Anna Mae, Eat the Cake!
For the last couple of days, I have been trying to figure out procrastinating on posting about my lastest date. Fresh out of the caribbean where the men worshipped me like the super bad chick that I am, right into one of the hottest sushi bars in LA for a first time meeting with a… Read More I’m Here to Date, Not to Screw
“Are we talking rough as in I do okay here and there or rough as in Top Ramen every night for dinner? His response was “Top Ramen for breakfast, lunch and dinner”. This was the warning sign Broke Boo was giving me, a true depiction of how his current financial status wasn’t the best.… Read More Should You Date When You’re Broke- Part II
Dating is something that consumes both time and energy and for the life of me, I will never understand how the cheaters and players are able to carry on without burning out. While having two dates back to back in the same weekend may seem appealing (yeah, I’m hot stuff) and in the right direction… Read More Should You Date When You’re Broke? Part I
If only I had the energy to share the plethora of events that took place this past weekend, and normally there is never a dull moment. I accepted a double dog dare and ended up riding a mechanical bull for the first time, successfully managing to keep all body parts inside of my clothing. Next, I had the… Read More Suffering From Dating Burnout
As frustrated as I may be with the dating scene and the failure of past relationships, I still have some compassion buried inside. I feel a little bad for how things have ended with Brooklyn’s Finest, but a part of me feels that the situation was handled in a fairly decent manner. My infamous “Take… Read More How I’m Handling Being Uninterested
Two days of messaging online which led to me hearing “I need to hear the voice behind that amazing sense of humor and quirky writing style, please call me”. A four and a half hour telephone conversation which caused resulted in me struggling through the next day, operating on two and a half hours of… Read More The Score
One year. 365 days. 53 weeks. Several template revisions, three “About Me” rewrites, many lessons learned. 118 posts. 1,071 comments. Thousands of Spam messages. Encounters with an estimated 26 men. Total of 26 disappointments with men. Countless expletives. Many headaches. Several arguments. One heartache. Happy Blogoversary My Dating Hangovers! I’m not quite sure how to feel… Read More A Year of Dating Hangovers
It’s about time I start having some good news to share so guess who had a nice date this weekend? Yes, it’s true. A nice sunny day, good eats and great conversation with plenty of laughter is how Second Chance and I enjoyed a Sunday afternoon. You know there’s always a story behind the naming… Read More There’s just this one thing…
Why is it that things seem to be going well with someone new and suddenly come to a screeching halt? Did I jinx myself by telling a friend about the wonderful things I liked about Silver Lining only to be followed up by my reasons why things would NOT work out with him? Am I so… Read More One man at a time?
The Calm. Too Good To Be True. The Artist. Last week I began exchanging messages with a man who probably had one of the most detailed profiles I’ve encountered thus far and yes (gasp), one that was grammatically intact. If you’ve ever been able to read the words written by a person and feel like… Read More Fresh Meat