• Break Ups,  My Dating Hangovers,  Relationship 101,  Settling or Compromising?,  The Non Committal Man or Woman,  THIS is Why I'm Single!,  When you're dating your ex

    Time to refocus

    Remember what I said a few days ago about feeling constipated?  Well today I’m feeling like I’ve popped a few lower bowel supplements and am ready to share what’s been clogging my mind for the last couple of days. This will likely be a long one and will probably be part of a chapter in a book I’ll write, so for now, let’s just say that constipation has developed into a bad case of the runs. First, let me just say this – dating SUCKS. Whether it’s casual, working towards something serious or in a full blown committed relationship, I sometimes feel the amount of work and effort needed is simply…

  • Break Ups,  My Dating Hangovers,  Relationship 101,  THIS is Why I'm Single!

    The Dating Resume

      Since I’ve tried figuring out where I’ve been going wrong with the types of men who FIND ME, I’ve been asked from feedback from family and friends and scanned a couple of dating blogs and forums.  A few weeks ago I’d stumbled on someone’s dating resume.  Yes, resume. What a novel idea and why not? A relationship is such a major life changing decision, so similar to trying to find that dream job.  For instance, when I think of what my ideal place of employment would be I have to factor in the demographics, size, financial stability, opportunity for growth and of course, the perks.  Let me breakdown what a resume really is: A resume…