Ordinarily, this type of post wouldn’t be anything worth giving a second glance to but there’s just one problem- it’s ME sharing this on a dating blog! You have to love it when Facebook makes suggestions about who to add and most times, it’s someone you would rather ignore. Sometimes, I might take a looksie… Read More Gotta Love Facebook!
One year. 365 days. 53 weeks. Several template revisions, three “About Me” rewrites, many lessons learned. 118 posts. 1,071 comments. Thousands of Spam messages. Encounters with an estimated 26 men. Total of 26 disappointments with men. Countless expletives. Many headaches. Several arguments. One heartache. Happy Blogoversary My Dating Hangovers! I’m not quite sure how to feel… Read More A Year of Dating Hangovers
“You really need to update the blog so your readers know this is what really happens when you’re dealing with relationship issues”. I wouldn’t expect to hear something like this from a man, and especially not Special Agent but this is what he told me when I shared that there was a little more… Read More Did we make up or WHAT?
A Week of Revelations “Only time will tell what happens with him or any of these other three OR any of the others I didn’t have time to mention here.” I guess the most appropriate place to begin this post is by starting where I left… Read More A Week of Revelations
Blame the bastards at Hewlett Packard for my delays in posting! Yes, my laptop is truly on its last leg and I haven’t been able to access the Internet in almost two weeks. Of course there’s the back-up plan using the Blackberry tool but it’s just easier in front of a real computer to spew… Read More A Tale of Four Men
Cost for an after hours locksmith- $84 Feeling okay the day after a break up-PRICELESS. Saturday was quite interesting. As I woke up and started preparing food for a potluck, I wondered about my plan of action. I was so over the “how come you won’t just talk to me” or the “your actions make… Read More A new day
Great minds think alike! Esme, you’re so right. Fu#k these men with all of their issues. I decided at 2:25pm this afternoon that Rescue needs to be rescued. Pun intended. I told a friend a few weeks ago we need to stop dealing with these dog pound-caliber of men. Yes, I said dog pound. They’re… Read More A few hours later…
I just got my house key back from Rescue. The last message I’d sent was pretty stern as I said a little something like “I don’t want to talk to you” and “leave the car running, I’ll meet you at the door”. So there he was, looking as handsome as ever with a puppy dog… Read More Before the trip
To say that this past week has been rough would be a gross understatement. I haven’t been shedding tears of “my relationship is crappy and pretty much over, but more “this whole wanting to be with someone is crappy”. Actually, I take that back – the crying has pretty much subsided and has been replaced… Read More Phase 3- The “I don’t know how I feel” moment
The crying, dry heaves and headaches and confusion that follows have subsided. I’ve have passed the “I don’t really want it to be over”, “perhaps we just need a break” and the “why do I feel so bad” stages. I’ll admit it here – Saturday and Sunday were more like pre-break up moments. I’d told… Read More Phase 2
All I’m saying is… It seems like the world got the memo about my relationship blues. I get a random text message from Mr. Jekyl (damn, I STILL have not shared the sordid details about that love affair turned Nightmare on Elm St.). Simply saying “Hi”. Don’t read any more into it. That IS his… Read More The word is OUT!
I believe I am now a single woman. Again. After all of the drama, the divorce arguments, trying to convey communication vs incorrect assumptions, and learning to juggle things in life, I decided I can take no more. When I woke up yesterday (for like the 3rd time), I decided there is no hope for… Read More After all of that…
“You guys don’t get a lot of what men are trying to communicate or do so stop trying so hard to analyze everything”. Yes, this is what my dear friend named Papa Bear said to me last week. I’m a 36 year-old woman, of course I know there is normally a communication barrier between the… Read More “Of course, because you’re a WOMAN!”
It has been eight days since Rescue and I had our latest “incident”, seven days since we last saw each other, and six days since I apologized and two hours have passed since he and I had what I hope was the beginning of a break through conversation. Yes, I apologized and the reason why is… Read More Part Deaux
So much has transpired since my update last weekend. Of course, my girls who have seen me know the details of all that went down with me and Rescue and for you others – read it here because I simply don’t have the energy to rehash it. That last line sounds like a state of… Read More He can blame himself in the end- Pt. 1