The funny thing about dating is that there are so many different types of men and situations out there so you really are placed in a position of picking your poison. My last date from a few months ago really had it together. He owned a couple of properties, had a stable career with no… Read More I Can Work with Men
EXCLUSIVITY Related to exclusivity: Mutual exclusivity ex·clu·sive (ĭk-sklo͞o′sĭv) adj. 1. Excluding or tending to exclude: exclusive barriers. 2. Not allowing something else; incompatible: mutually exclusive conditions. 3. Not divided or shared with others: exclusive publishing rights. 4. Not accompanied by others; single or sole. It’s late and as I’m ready to call it a night,… Read More Too Soon?
We might have a winner! We might have a winner! We might have a winner! In case the point isn’t being emphasized enough, I think we might have a winner so let’s just call him Winner! Last night’s date was a smashing success and even better, the feeling is mutual since we ended the night… Read More Great First Dates
Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday. And now you’re on day five and like most people, have likely been fantasizing about this day arriving like crazy. No matter what, it always seems like the longest week ever, so when someone asks me on a date for the first time on a Friday night, I often cringe. Tired,… Read More Too Pooped for Friday Meet Ups!
The short version of my recent meet up: He messaged me, I responded. He responded, then I responded and we exchanged numbers and he then texted to me and I responded and he said let’s get together later, and I said okay to a meet up at Starbucks which I hate for meet ups, we… Read More Stay Away From This Guy
Last week’s date marked the first time I’ve gone out with a non-black man and while one “quick” meet up will never allow me to claim an interracial dating experience, at least I was open coerced enough to have tried it. During that excruciating hour and eleven minutes with the hangover I’ll call Guido, a… Read More He Didn’t Wear Heels
Nothing is constant but change and this concept most certainly applies to dating. Over the last ten years or so, the rules of the game have changed drastically and this isn’t just because online dating is now one of the most popular ways to try finding that special someone but our society is now a… Read More Throwback Dating
He started things off the right way by only taking one look at my profile, sending me a decent introductory message that was far more creative than “Hello beautiful” or worse – “Hi”. It didn’t take twenty inbox chats later to know that we were both interested and after a few days here’s what I… Read More Hooray for Great First Dates!
For the first time in the years I’ve been writing this blog, a post was sent out loaded with Spam content including everything from naughty messages to Cialis recommendations. Could it be purely coincidental since “erectile dysfunction” was one of the tagged phrases? I don’t know but apologize profusely for any confusion. While there were… Read More Too Much Continued….Minus the Spam!
Okay, well not exactly in band camp but man oh man does this date taking place in just a few minutes have an interesting throwback element. Yes my lovelies, I am still alive but this new year has been off to a crazy, hectic start and dating simply has been priority level -1,5000,000. There has… Read More One Time… in Band Camp