The Ghost of F@ck Boys Past
Those mixed feelings of excitement and nausea when an old flame reaches out to you after a lot of time has passed. Do you ignore or take the bait?… Read More The Ghost of F@ck Boys Past
Category: Friends with Benefits
And just like that…
My swirly stint with Jon B is over! It became too confusing trying to decipher his mixed signals when he’s doing one thing but continuously tells me that he wants to “take things slow” What the hell does that mean?!?! Not once did I press him with one of those “what’s next” or “what are you looking for” conversations,… Read More And just like that…
— Dating over 40, Dating While Black (DWB), Friends with Benefits, Interracial Dating, Swirling (Interracial Dating), What Women Want —
Down with the Swirl- Part 2
So it’s been a few weeks of this swirling dating adventure with Jon B and I have a few observations to report. No, not THE actual R&B crooner hottie himself but as much as the new guy hates being told, that’s exactly who he favors. 😍😍😍😍😍 The Look a Like and I met on a… Read More Down with the Swirl- Part 2
When a Woman’s Ready to Go
Here’s how you blow up 18 years in a single text message: “I’m such a punk because I should have said this last night. I can NOT separate these (new) emotions from amazing sexual chemistry and with each visit, it gets worse. Confuses me and I send stupid shit like this. But… I do want… Read More When a Woman’s Ready to Go
— Friends with Benefits, My Dating Hangovers, Settling or Compromising?, Single Girl Problems, The Non Committal Man or Woman —
Shit or Get Off The Pot
When a woman is ready to let go, nothing can change her mind.… Read More Shit or Get Off The Pot
Breaking the Rules
Rule #1 of having a friend with benefits – don’t catch feelings. Rule #2 of having a friend with benefits – don’t catch feelings. If only there was a manual for how to successfully carry on with this type of thing. Too bad I never thought to read 10 Simple Rules to Maintaining a Successful… Read More Breaking the Rules
— Friends with Benefits, Settling or Compromising?, Sex/Romance, Single Girl Problems, The Non Committal Man or Woman —
The 18 Year Situation
I only want him for the sex… Read More The 18 Year Situation
The Familiar
When the sex is so good, you’re ready for bed by 9pm on a Saturday night. It’s been 7 months and after a disappointing random encounter with someone new, I decided it’s best to stick with what I know. After nearly 20 years, he has never ever let me down. Mmm, Papi. Until there’s a… Read More The Familiar
Girl, Don’t Send That Text!
If someone is struggling with an addiction or having suicidal tendencies, there’s help. One call to a dedicated number can offer support, fresh perspectives and hopefully prevent someone from doing something they’ll end up regretting. So why in the hell has no one ever created a crisis hot line for dating? You know we need… Read More Girl, Don’t Send That Text!
Gotta Love Facebook!
Ordinarily, this type of post wouldn’t be anything worth giving a second glance to but there’s just one problem- it’s ME sharing this on a dating blog! You have to love it when Facebook makes suggestions about who to add and most times, it’s someone you would rather ignore. Sometimes, I might take a looksie… Read More Gotta Love Facebook!
When Your Past Comes Calling
I ran across a little blurb that said “If your past calls, don’t answer because it rarely has anything new to say”, and wouldn’t you know that in about 10 minutes, I had received a random text from one hangover and a missed call from another. The moons and the stars must have been in… Read More When Your Past Comes Calling
Situationville
How many of you can relate to that title? One simple word that basically means you are involved in one of those situations that really should NOT exist.You’re dealing with a man or woman, but there is no commitment, no relationship exists. He or she is more than a friend, but more significant than a friends with… Read More Situationville
The Crymax Experience
“Move your arms again and I will punish you and go harder, do you understand? Keep them up just like that. I told you when I saw you again; I was going to make sure we parted ways with you being extremely satisfied.” I can remember nodding followed by some kind of inaudible sound coming out… Read More The Crymax Experience
If I Had My Way
Sometimes I tend to think too much and as one of my former hangovers used to joke, if Carmen is thinking, you better watch out. Do you ever have those moments where your brain just seems like it is on overload, and instead of going through the motions you tend to think a little TOO… Read More If I Had My Way
Things to Do Before Vacation
After 6 days of soaking in the blazing sun, sipping Sammy Sosas by the pool, and reveling in the beauty of the country and people of the Dominican Republic, I’m back! Back to reality, back to life, back to the dating scene and as much as I hate to say it, back to the… Read More Things to Do Before Vacation
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