• HOME
  • MEET CARMEN JONES
  • THE INFAMOUS HANGOVERS
  • ASK CARMEN
  • PRODUCT REVIEWS
My Dating Hangovers

Until theres a cure…

No Widgets found in the Sidebar Alt!

  • Friends with Benefits

    The Ghost of F@ck Boys Past

    February 23, 2017

    Those mixed feelings of excitement and nausea when an old flame reaches out to you after a lot of time has passed. Do you ignore or take the bait?

    read more

    You May Also Like

    When a Woman’s Ready to Go

    September 28, 2015

    Girl, Don’t Send That Text!

    January 12, 2015

    Things to Do Before Vacation

    October 7, 2012
  • Dating over 40,  Dumb Shit Guys Do,  Friends with Benefits

    And just like that…

    October 19, 2016

    My swirly stint with Jon B is over! It became too confusing trying to decipher his mixed signals when he’s doing one thing but continuously tells me that he wants to “take things slow” What the hell does that mean?!?! Not once did I press him with one of those “what’s next” or “what are you looking for” conversations, not once.  While he’s repeating his mantra of wanting to take it slow, he should have just said he’s not interested in the seriously dating (or dating me) because I was getting a little confused. Wanting to see me more than one day in a week, especially taking up my weekends isn’t necessary if you want to take it slow…

    read more

    You May Also Like

    Program Change 

    October 4, 2016

    5 Things Women Want in a Man

    April 19, 2016

    First Conversations with Someone New

    July 31, 2016
  • Dating over 40,  Dating While Black (DWB),  Friends with Benefits,  Interracial Dating,  Swirling (Interracial Dating),  What Women Want

    Down with the Swirl- Part 2

    September 27, 2016

    So it’s been a few weeks of this swirling dating adventure with Jon B and I have a few observations to report. No, not THE actual  R&B crooner hottie himself but as much as the new guy hates being told, that’s exactly who he favors. 😍😍😍😍😍 The Look a Like and I met on a Wednesday, went out that Friday, Saturday AND again that Sunday.  Repeat the following week and again.  What does this mean? Hell, I don’t know. We’re either mildly interested in each other OR we’re just looking for time fillers. I haven’t been able to get a solid reading on the Look a Like, but I’m guessing…

    read more

    You May Also Like

    A Message for The Older Woman

    April 13, 2016

    Reappearing Act Gone Wrong

    January 24, 2017

    And just like that…

    October 19, 2016
  • Friends with Benefits,  Single Girl Problems

    When a Woman’s Ready to Go

    September 28, 2015

    Here’s how you blow up 18 years in a single text message: “I’m such a punk because I should have said this last night. I can NOT separate these (new) emotions from amazing sexual chemistry and with each visit,  it gets worse. Confuses me and I send stupid shit like this. But… I do want sooooo much more in my life than just an occasional tryst, no matter how incredible.  I know what I want and you can’t give me that. So for me, it feels like I’m settling and I can’t do that. Not the best way to tell you and for that I’m sorry.” I’ve said this before…

    read more

    You May Also Like

    Girl, Don’t Send That Text!

    January 12, 2015

    When Your Past Comes Calling

    February 12, 2014

    And just like that…

    October 19, 2016
  • Friends with Benefits,  My Dating Hangovers,  Settling or Compromising?,  Single Girl Problems,  The Non Committal Man or Woman

    Shit or Get Off The Pot

    August 21, 2015

    When a woman is ready to let go, nothing can change her mind.

    read more

    You May Also Like

    Things to Do Before Vacation

    October 7, 2012

    The Crymax Experience

    April 1, 2013

    The Ghost of F@ck Boys Past

    February 23, 2017
  • Friends with Benefits,  Settling or Compromising?,  Sex/Romance,  Single Girl Problems

    Breaking the Rules

    August 5, 2015

    Rule #1 of having a friend with benefits – don’t catch feelings. Rule #2 of having a friend with benefits – don’t catch feelings. If only there was a manual for how to successfully carry on with this type of thing.  Too bad I never thought to read 10 Simple Rules to Maintaining a Successful Sex Buddy Relationship. Here’s my deal. In an effort to minimize my slut factor throughout the years, I have kept the company of two male “companions” whose sole purpose in my life was to dick me down.  No drama, no dating, no regular telephone calls and no questioning of each other’s dealings or actions in anyway.…

    read more

    You May Also Like

    Girl, Don’t Send That Text!

    January 12, 2015

    The Crymax Experience

    April 1, 2013

    If I Had My Way

    October 23, 2012
  • Friends with Benefits,  Settling or Compromising?,  Sex/Romance,  Single Girl Problems,  The Non Committal Man or Woman

    The 18 Year Situation

    April 6, 2015

    I only want him for the sex

    read more

    You May Also Like

    And just like that…

    October 19, 2016

    Situationville

    August 12, 2013

    The Ghost of F@ck Boys Past

    February 23, 2017
  • Friends with Benefits,  Sex/Romance

    The Familiar

    February 28, 2015

    When the sex is so good, you’re ready for bed by 9pm on a Saturday night. It’s been 7 months and after a disappointing random encounter with someone new, I decided it’s best to stick with what I know. After nearly 20 years, he has never ever let me down. Mmm, Papi. Until there’s a cure for the dating hangovers, I will not be starved of multiple orgasmic episodes. Carmen Jones

    read more

    You May Also Like

    Breaking the Rules

    August 5, 2015

    The 18 Year Situation

    April 6, 2015

    And just like that…

    October 19, 2016
  • Friends with Benefits

    Girl, Don’t Send That Text!

    January 12, 2015

     If someone is struggling with an addiction or having suicidal tendencies, there’s help.   One call to a dedicated number can offer support, fresh perspectives and hopefully prevent someone from doing something they’ll end up regretting. So why in the hell has no one ever created a crisis hot line for dating? You know we need it! There’s always some man or woman acting a god damn fool over someone they’ve been dealing with and shit has taken a turn for the worse.  They’re about to send some convoluted text message, blow up someone’s phone and leave some stalker-ish message that’s about five minutes long or worse – go on over…

    read more

    You May Also Like

    The Ghost of F@ck Boys Past

    February 23, 2017

    When Your Past Comes Calling

    February 12, 2014

    Down with the Swirl- Part 2

    September 27, 2016
  • Cheating,  Friends with Benefits,  Married Men

    Gotta Love Facebook!

    August 5, 2014

    Ordinarily,  this type of post wouldn’t be anything worth giving a second glance to but there’s just one problem- it’s ME sharing this on a dating blog! You have to love it when Facebook makes suggestions about who to add and most times, it’s someone you would rather ignore.  Sometimes,  I might take a looksie to see what the person’s wall or photos says about how they’re living.  Last night,  the profile of a guy who’s been an occasional friend with benefits for a few years. Love the profile that is open to the world because in a matter of minutes, I saw that he was still in his high-visibility…

    read more

    You May Also Like

    There is NOTHING like a woman scorned!

    June 4, 2013
  • Friends with Benefits

    When Your Past Comes Calling

    February 12, 2014

    I ran across a little blurb that said “If your past calls, don’t answer because it rarely has anything new to say”, and wouldn’t you know that in about 10 minutes,  I had received a random text from one hangover and a missed call from another. The moons and the stars must have been in perfect alignment because there is no desire to deal with either Good on Paper or Out of Sight yet for some reason, my responses were a little inconsistent with the two. Out of Sight had been told many months ago that trying to be “friends” was just stupid.  I don’t even like him as a…

    read more

    You May Also Like

    The Crymax Experience

    April 1, 2013

    If I Had My Way

    October 23, 2012

    Things to Do Before Vacation

    October 7, 2012
  • Friends with Benefits,  Red Flags,  Settling or Compromising?,  The Non Committal Man or Woman

    Situationville

    August 12, 2013

    How many of you can relate to that title?  One simple word that basically means you are involved in one of those situations that really should NOT exist.You’re dealing with a man or woman, but there is no commitment, no relationship exists.   He or she is more than a friend, but more significant than a friends with benefits.  The two of you have a real connection, strong feelings and passion. Yet still, you’re undefined and technically unattached to each other. It’s funny how many people, especially men seem to think that a commitment is all about a title when it is so much more.  So instead of moving on to something new there are…

    read more

    You May Also Like

    Gotta Love Facebook!

    August 5, 2014

    Girl, Don’t Send That Text!

    January 12, 2015

    The 18 Year Situation

    April 6, 2015
  • Friends with Benefits,  Sex/Romance,  Uncategorized

    The Crymax Experience

    April 1, 2013

    “Move your arms again and I will punish you and go harder, do you understand? Keep them up just like that.  I told you when I saw you again; I was going to make sure we parted ways with you being extremely satisfied.” I can remember nodding followed by some kind of inaudible sound coming out of my mouth, which wasn’t good enough so he responded with a devilish grin and a deep thrust.   The reaction to that was a loud yelp and “Okay sweetie, I’m sorry” which turned him on even more as he began to rhythmically drill into hidden corners inside of me. Soft whimpers of pleasure escaped my…

    read more

    You May Also Like

    Breaking the Rules

    August 5, 2015

    And just like that…

    October 19, 2016

    When Your Past Comes Calling

    February 12, 2014
  • Friends with Benefits,  Uncategorized

    If I Had My Way

    October 23, 2012

    Sometimes I tend to think too much and as one of my former hangovers used to joke, if Carmen is thinking, you better watch out.  Do you ever have those moments where  your brain just seems like it is on overload, and instead of going through the motions you tend to think a little TOO much?  I have moments when I want to just do it, not over think and if I had my way, I would do more to enoy the moments. For instance, this past Sunday I had a minor setback and paid a visit to Rescue.  While I certainly enjoyed pouncing on his face and working him…

    read more

    You May Also Like

    Gotta Love Facebook!

    August 5, 2014

    Shit or Get Off The Pot

    August 21, 2015

    Down with the Swirl- Part 2

    September 27, 2016
  • Friends with Benefits,  Sex/Romance

    Things to Do Before Vacation

    October 7, 2012

      After 6 days of soaking in the blazing sun, sipping Sammy Sosas by the pool, and reveling in the beauty of the country and people of the Dominican Republic, I’m back! Back to reality, back to life, back to the dating scene and as much as I hate to say it, back to the hangovers that come with dating.  But everything has a priority after such a fabulous vacation, so I thought I would share my checklist of things to do: 1. Unpack 2. Rest and flush kidneys 3. Mind blowing sex 4. Have multiple orgasms 5. More sex 6. First date with new guy 7. More sex and…

    read more

    You May Also Like

    The 18 Year Situation

    April 6, 2015

    Breaking the Rules

    August 5, 2015

    The Ghost of F@ck Boys Past

    February 23, 2017

Categories

  • Bad dating profiles (2)
  • Bad First Dates (23)
  • Break Ups (17)
  • Cheating (2)
  • Dating Over 30 (5)
  • Dating over 40 (8)
  • Dating Tips (7)
  • Dating While Black (DWB) (3)
  • Dumb Shit Guys Do (14)
  • First Dates (10)
  • Friend Zone (11)
    • What Women Want (7)
  • Friends with Benefits (15)
  • Guest Posts (9)
  • Interracial Dating (7)
  • Married Men (18)
  • Mental Illness (1)
  • My Dating Hangovers (61)
  • Online Dating (46)
  • Plenty of Fail (29)
  • Polls (1)
  • Product Reviews (1)
  • profile mistakes guys make (2)
  • Red Flags (44)
  • Relationship 101 (40)
  • Settling or Compromising? (32)
  • Sex/Romance (17)
  • Shitty Dating Profiles (3)
  • Single Girl Problems (10)
  • Single Parent Dating (4)
  • Slider Posts (7)
    • Slider Posts (5)
  • Swirling (Interracial Dating) (2)
  • TEST (1)
  • The Non Committal Man or Woman (12)
  • THIS is Why I'm Single! (106)
  • Uncategorized (144)
  • Understanding Men (2)
  • When you're dating your ex (19)
MyFreeCopyright.com Registered & Protected

Meta

  • Log in
  • Entries RSS
  • Comments RSS
  • WordPress.org

SUBSCRIBE to the Hangovers!

Subscribe via RSSSubscribe via EmailSubscribe via TwitterSubscribe via Facebook

Blogs I Like

  • BougieLand
  • Bridget Jones Has Nothing On Me
  • Cupid's Library
  • Curvy Girl Chronicles
  • Marvelous Marti
  • Single Black Male
  • Single Girl Blogging
  • Soon to be cat lady

SUBSCRIBE to the Hangovers!

Subscribe via RSSSubscribe via EmailSubscribe via TwitterSubscribe via Facebook

Latest Posts

  • A Different Kind of Infidelity: Cyber Cheating (Part 1 of 2)
  • The Death of Dating
  • The Ghost of F@ck Boys Past
  • Respond, Ignore or Block?
  • Who Wants to Date a Jerk?
  • Reappearing Act Gone Wrong
  • I’ve got some ‘splaining to do…
  • Dating Someone Who’s Been to Prison
  • Could this be the LONGEST one EVER?
  • The Lies Women Tell

CHATTER

Twitter
MyDatingHangovers
MyDatingHangovers
@myhangovers

@BougieBlackGurl Should we just tag the relationship "coach" Kevin Samuels?😩

reply retweet favorite
4:47 am · December 23, 2020
Twitter
Joe Scarborough
Joe Scarborough
@JoeNBC

A source at the White House told me last night, “It feels like a bill has come due and God is collecting.”

reply retweet favorite
7:41 am · October 8, 2020 ·
Retweeted by MyDatingHangovers
Twitter
MyDatingHangovers
MyDatingHangovers
@myhangovers

I mean... the opening line had me. youtu.be/SMwWZ9UxyN8

reply retweet favorite
8:26 pm · December 19, 2019
Twitter
MyDatingHangovers
MyDatingHangovers
@myhangovers

@BougieBlackGurl I was just saying the exact same thing. Let us be happy.. even if it's a $4.50 joy!!

reply retweet favorite
1:27 am · August 27, 2019
Twitter
Cybel Martin
Cybel Martin
@CybelDP

Grace Jones on the runway is all I need to see today. #TommyXZendaya pic.twitter.com/dkZi8jDrun

reply retweet favorite
6:41 pm · March 12, 2019 ·
Retweeted by MyDatingHangovers
Twitter
MyDatingHangovers
MyDatingHangovers
@myhangovers

Interesting... yourtango.com/2018312245/15-…

reply retweet favorite
10:22 pm · September 4, 2018
Twitter
Ebrahim Aseem
Ebrahim Aseem
@EbrahimAseem

If his phone is always faced down or hidden from you while he’s on it, you’re not the only girl he’s talking to. You deserve transparent loyalty.

reply retweet favorite
6:21 am · July 20, 2018 ·
Retweeted by MyDatingHangovers
Twitter
MyDatingHangovers
MyDatingHangovers
@myhangovers

I see no lies here. twitter.com/Daddyissues__/…

reply retweet favorite
10:09 pm · July 15, 2018
Twitter
Samantha Weller
Samantha Weller
@samanthaweller1

Yesssssss! 🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪💯👌🏻 #dating #relationship #breakup pic.twitter.com/Csad7q1HDd

reply retweet favorite
10:08 pm · July 15, 2018 ·
Retweeted by MyDatingHangovers
Twitter
MyDatingHangovers
MyDatingHangovers
@myhangovers

Of course Capricorn makes the list! These 5 Zodiac Signs Never Stay Friends With An Ex, According To Astrology yourtango.com/2018314434/zod… via @YourTango

reply retweet favorite
6:22 pm · June 30, 2018
Twitter
Ebrahim Aseem
Ebrahim Aseem
@EbrahimAseem

If you give him a million chances after mistakes you're not his woman you're his mom. Claim him on your taxes. It's not your job to fix a man. pic.twitter.com/GgQswXz0ze

reply retweet favorite
2:38 am · June 22, 2018 ·
Retweeted by MyDatingHangovers
Twitter
MyDatingHangovers
MyDatingHangovers
@myhangovers

@samanthaweller1 Dumb and dumber.

reply retweet favorite
2:37 am · June 22, 2018
Twitter
MyDatingHangovers
MyDatingHangovers
@myhangovers

@MichaelAvenatti Sounds good but please, don't wear any clothing that says something about you not caring. 😦

reply retweet favorite
2:37 am · June 22, 2018
Twitter
MyDatingHangovers
MyDatingHangovers
@myhangovers

Obviously, this guy is used to not getting a "responce". 😦 #onlinedating #literacymatters pic.twitter.com/1iqrfuTQeV

reply retweet favorite
2:11 pm · June 20, 2018
Twitter
MyDatingHangovers
MyDatingHangovers
@myhangovers

@MoYahyaOnFiyah @savelar81 @JamieandAngie @Power_STARZ @STARZ @MoYahyaOnFiyah Girl what?!?! Can I see??

reply retweet favorite
5:51 pm · June 19, 2018
Twitter
MyDatingHangovers
MyDatingHangovers
@myhangovers

@MoYahyaOnFiyah @savelar81 @JamieandAngie @Power_STARZ @STARZ What!?!?!? As much as she works my nerves I can't believe they would kill her off!! Let me see.

reply retweet favorite
5:43 pm · June 19, 2018
Twitter
MyDatingHangovers
MyDatingHangovers
@myhangovers

Dating in 2018- the accuracy! instagram.com/p/Bj_Rk8XAJNF/…

reply retweet favorite
12:42 pm · June 14, 2018
Twitter
MyDatingHangovers
MyDatingHangovers
@myhangovers

"You're single because you keep messing with the wrong dudes " - a wronger dude

reply retweet favorite
3:51 pm · May 29, 2018
Twitter
MyDatingHangovers
MyDatingHangovers
@myhangovers

pic.twitter.com/9vwUQ2uWM2

reply retweet favorite
12:48 am · May 28, 2018
Twitter
MyDatingHangovers
MyDatingHangovers
@myhangovers

Absolutely NO judgement here! #singlelife #fiftyshades #itshardouthere pic.twitter.com/6IMgrMbRq8

reply retweet favorite
5:12 pm · May 16, 2018
Follow @myhangovers

CATEGORIES

  • Bad dating profiles (2)
  • Bad First Dates (23)
  • Break Ups (17)
  • Cheating (2)
  • Dating Over 30 (5)
  • Dating over 40 (8)
  • Dating Tips (7)
  • Dating While Black (DWB) (3)
  • Dumb Shit Guys Do (14)
  • First Dates (10)
  • Friend Zone (4)
  • Friends with Benefits (15)
  • Guest Posts (9)
  • Interracial Dating (7)
  • Married Men (18)
  • Mental Illness (1)
  • My Dating Hangovers (61)
  • Online Dating (46)
  • Plenty of Fail (29)
  • Polls (1)
  • Product Reviews (1)
  • profile mistakes guys make (2)
  • Red Flags (44)
  • Relationship 101 (40)
  • Settling or Compromising? (32)
  • Sex/Romance (17)
  • Shitty Dating Profiles (3)
  • Single Girl Problems (10)
  • Single Parent Dating (4)
  • Slider Posts (7)
  • Slider Posts (5)
  • Swirling (Interracial Dating) (2)
  • TEST (1)
  • The Non Committal Man or Woman (12)
  • THIS is Why I'm Single! (106)
  • Uncategorized (144)
  • Understanding Men (2)
  • What Women Want (7)
  • When you're dating your ex (19)

Blogs I Like

  • BougieLand
  • Bridget Jones Has Nothing On Me
  • Cupid's Library
  • Curvy Girl Chronicles
  • Marvelous Marti
  • Single Black Male
  • Single Girl Blogging
  • Soon to be cat lady

SUBSCRIBE TO GET MORE!

Subscribe

Rate My Blog

Dating Blogs
Top Blogs
Photobucket
One Crazy Brunette Chick

Write Your Own Material!

MyFreeCopyright.com Registered & Protected

Bloglog

Dating Blogs
Dating directory

My stuff

  • Log in
  • Entries RSS
  • Comments RSS
  • WordPress.org

SUBSCRIBE TO GET MORE!

Subscribe
Ashe Theme by WP Royal.

StumbleUpon StumbleUpon 
Digg Digg 
Facebook Facebook Twitter Twitter
grab this