It’s amazing how men think they can just disappear and pop back into your life like it’s nothing. But this hangover thought wrong and caught me on the sober end of taco Tuesday. Grab your headphones and get ready to LISTEN to a raw and UNEDITED explanation of why I sent that venomous text in… Read More Reappearing Act Gone Wrong
While contemplating my next move with Jon B, I’m realizing that aside from him being cute and seemingly good on paper, we really don’t have that much in common or at least nothing else that I can tell because he doesn’t talk about much. Sure, we both enjoy eating and indulging in cocktails, but other than that I only… Read More Program Change
Why do men date low maintenance women?… Read More High Standards, Single Women
It saddens me to hear about yet another relationship gone terribly wrong. In case you haven’t heard the latest news, rapper Earl Hayes who was once signed to Floyd Mayweather’s record label decided to take a tragically different approach to reconciliation by shooting his wife and star of VH1’s reality show Hit the Floor, Stephanie Moseley,… Read More Don’t Ignore the Signs
This post is dedicated to any woman who thought she was being too picky, said no too quickly or even said these dreaded “may as well” when going out with someone she should have ignored and deleted. It’s going to be a long one, so grab your coffee and take a seat. On the surface,… Read More Anna Mae, Eat the Cake!
“Finally, I have met my soul mate. He is a true lover of the Lord, engages me in deep and thought-provoking conversations and compliments me constantly. Never have I had a man tell me how beautiful I am several times a day, not even my ex-husband and I can’t recall the last time I have… Read More But at Least She HAS a Man!
A few weeks ago I was enjoying lunch with a group of friends. One says she couldn’t understand why a beautiful woman who was also classy, smart and well-rounded could be single. So very, very single. She hears some of the stories but doesn’t know the full extent of the dating nightmares. Another friend sat… Read More It’s an Epidemic!
For anyone out there who thinks the best way to get over someone is to meet someone new, two fist pumps in the air to you because I think it’s a bad idea. Several of my girlfriends have done this even though I have always suggested otherwise because they don’t realize that if you’re still licking… Read More Is This What I Wanted?
Sometimes I really wished my levels of perception were dialed down from a level 10 to maybe a 2. Maybe if my instincts about certain situations with these hangovers weren’t so on point, then perhaps I wouldn’t be struggling so much in trying to find my guy. Translation – I should either ignore a lot of… Read More The Representative
Wikipedia defines a rebound in terms of basketball as the act of successfully gaining possession of the basketball after a missed field goal or free throw.Rebounds in basketball are a routine part in the game, as all possessions change after a shot is successfully made. Now what if I took that same meaning and applied my own little touches to it… Read More The Rebound
How many of you can relate to that title? One simple word that basically means you are involved in one of those situations that really should NOT exist.You’re dealing with a man or woman, but there is no commitment, no relationship exists. He or she is more than a friend, but more significant than a friends with… Read More Situationville
It’s always hard to let someone know there’s something major missing in the likeness department when they are really nice, because no one wants to get their feelings hurt for I’ve been trying to decide how to handle this situation with Showtime. There hasn’t been much shared about him here since our initial meet-up and… Read More A Few Pounds Too Much
“…I can’t understand how a woman like you could be single, you are amazing…” is what Out of Sight said quite a few times earlier on during our friendship/situation and I would always jokingly reply “It’s possible because and I am truly a good catch, but I keep meeting assholes with too much personal baggage who aren’t… Read More Why Are You Single?
The man I have been getting to know while he planned a major life changing move back to Southern California has arrived and he made sure I was on the list of things to do the same day his plane touched down. Sunday afternoon seemed to make all of the waiting and anticipation worth it, and… Read More Return to Sender?
As of a few moments ago, I just canceled my second date with Enron only he doesn’t know it yet. You’ll notice that this post doesn’t have a title because hell, I’m a little conflicted on what it should be. While I always said the direct approach is the best way of letting someone… Read More Enron