All I’m saying is… It seems like the world got the memo about my relationship blues. I get a random text message from Mr. Jekyl (damn, I STILL have not shared the sordid details about that love affair turned Nightmare on Elm St.). Simply saying “Hi”. Don’t read any more into it. That IS his… Read More The word is OUT!
I believe I am now a single woman. Again. After all of the drama, the divorce arguments, trying to convey communication vs incorrect assumptions, and learning to juggle things in life, I decided I can take no more. When I woke up yesterday (for like the 3rd time), I decided there is no hope for… Read More After all of that…
So much has transpired since my update last weekend. Of course, my girls who have seen me know the details of all that went down with me and Rescue and for you others – read it here because I simply don’t have the energy to rehash it. That last line sounds like a state of… Read More He can blame himself in the end- Pt. 1
And those bitches are like the Santa Ana’s in the dead of summer – hot and swift. It was just a week or so ago that Kim sent me a BBM ladened with her latest dating woes and said- “Damn girl, things are going so well with you and Rescue, we won’t have anything… Read More The winds are changing…
“Hey dear stranger. 🙂 Its ____, how are you? Just putting the word out that I’m off the market. Got engaged”. This is the text message I received from the hangover named Mr. Hollywood hangover just after midnight, and while I… Read More Just Be Up Front!
My life seems to be on overdrive as of late – finalizing my career change ideas, researching masters degree programs, lounging in large pools in Vegas. I mean really, that can just be a bit overwhelming for a girl, you know? Of… Read More Training in Session
This probably more of a rant than anything, but I just have to say how sick I am of hearing the stories about women who are waiting. Waiting for that man to propose OR for those lucky enough to have heard already heard it, waiting for things to be “right” before a the man finally… Read More If you have to ask why…
So not what I wanted to read today: “…On the face of it, a combination between Capricorn and Libra may not seem the best of matches…” As much as I enjoy reading my horoscope to see how accurate, twisted or completely WRONG the forecast may be, one area I’d never really given much thought to was… Read More Are we compatible?
The stages of a break-up. We’re probably familiar with what they are or may have at least heard of them, but they’re the different transitions we go through with our minds and emotions that are really on the verge of a break-DOWN, depending on how involved you are with your significant other, boyfriend or… Read More 72 Hour Gag Order
Memo to self: Do not call, text or e-mail for the first 24 hours of a rift or major blowout because I can go from this priceless Kelis moment: rtsp://v1.cache8.c.youtube.com/CjULENy73wIaLAnJiPDPXgKV2BMYJCAkFEIGbXYtcmltSARSB3Jlc3VsdHNg8vnnvMCNmq5NDA==/0/0/0/video.3gp To having a Minnie type sensation thinking about all of the good: rtsp://v2.cache4.c.youtube.com/CjULENy73wIaLAk4ME-ewClNkBMYJCAkFEIGbXYtcmltSARSB3Jlc3VsdHNg8vnnvMCNmq5NDA==/0/0/0/video.3gp After bringing my friend up to speed on the latest developments with… Read More The Aftermath
Finally, the end of the day is here! When you’ve got a lot of stuff on your mind, doesn’t the 8-hour work day seem more like a 28 hour flight sandwiched between two large people with no a/c and a bad itch down there? Yep, pretty much like torture. So here’s part two of this… Read More Closed Mouths Don’t Get Fed
“I’m having a baby and am so excited, but how do I tell my fiance’ it isn’t his?” “Having sex with him bores me to DEATH. He has no idea what foreplay is or what it takes to turn me on. The very thought of him touching me makes me nauseous. Still, I love him… Read More What am I worried about?
In true procrastinating-blogger-who-makes-excuses-acting-like-posts-by-cell-are-impossible fashion, I’m going to apologize. Has it really been a week already? Damn, where are my nights and days going. Oh wait- I know. Rescue 911. Two songs popped into my head while I was on the treadmill a few moments ago. The first was “My Little Secret” by Xscape but no-… Read More Ssh… I’ve got a secret
Same old stuff in my world and apparently, a few others as well. Oh, the woes of dating. I just got off the phone with one of my good friends named Kim*, and although we JUST had this conversation earlier this week, there we were again talking about stupid men. I reminded her about the… Read More Vicious cycle
“The longer a person has been single, the harder it will be to have a meaningful relationship with them. Is this true or false and why?” This was a question posted by a friend on Facebook this afternoon and before I browsed through the replies that included the yes, no’s and don’t know’s. One of… Read More Can your lengthy single life ruin a new relationship?