Dating over 40, Interracial Dating, Online Dating, Red Flags, Settling or Compromising?, Understanding Men, What Women Want

Program Change 

While contemplating my next move with Jon B, I’m realizing that aside from him being cute and seemingly good on paper, we really don’t have that much in common or at least nothing else that I can tell because he doesn’t talk about much.   Sure, we both enjoy eating and indulging in cocktails, but other than that I only… Read More Program Change 

Bad First Dates, Dating Over 30, Dating While Black (DWB), Dumb Shit Guys Do, First Dates, Online Dating, Plenty of Fail, Settling or Compromising?, Single Girl Problems, Slider Posts, Slider Posts

I Can Work with Men

The funny thing about dating is that there are so many different types of men and situations out there so you really are placed in a position of picking your poison. My last date from a few months ago really had it together. He owned a couple of properties, had a stable career with no… Read More I Can Work with Men

Dating Over 30, First Dates, Online Dating, Settling or Compromising?

Too Soon?

EXCLUSIVITY Related to exclusivity: Mutual exclusivity ex·clu·sive  (ĭk-sklo͞o′sĭv) adj. 1. Excluding or tending to exclude: exclusive barriers. 2. Not allowing something else; incompatible: mutually exclusive conditions. 3. Not divided or shared with others: exclusive publishing rights. 4. Not accompanied by others; single or sole. It’s late and as I’m ready to call it a night,… Read More Too Soon?

Bad First Dates, Online Dating, Plenty of Fail, Settling or Compromising?

3 Signs the Date Wasn’t So Great

“So um hypothetically speaking, let’s say you and I keep doing this right here you know and after about three months we’re in a really cool place.  Does that mean you’ll eventually close out your dating account or do we have that conversation when you feel like you’re ready?” Blank stare. “I’m ready, you know what… Read More 3 Signs the Date Wasn’t So Great