He’s giving me that look again, rubbing on my leg and talking dirty to me. I know what he wants and don’t know if I can stomach another round with him. In fact, the last time I almost reached towards the nightstand to get B.O.B. and this was while we were having sex. I have… Read More Can Incompatibility Be The Problem?
Rule #1 of having a friend with benefits – don’t catch feelings. Rule #2 of having a friend with benefits – don’t catch feelings. If only there was a manual for how to successfully carry on with this type of thing. Too bad I never thought to read 10 Simple Rules to Maintaining a Successful… Read More Breaking the Rules
I’m addicted to him. I realize this addiction after my latest encounter with Papi just a while ago, and while we have been at the sexual affair for almost 20 years, the unthinkable seems to be happening. It just keeps getting better and this feeling is what frightens me the most. Incredibly sensual and the… Read More That One Connection
I only want him for the sex… Read More The 18 Year Situation
When the sex is so good, you’re ready for bed by 9pm on a Saturday night. It’s been 7 months and after a disappointing random encounter with someone new, I decided it’s best to stick with what I know. After nearly 20 years, he has never ever let me down. Mmm, Papi. Until there’s a… Read More The Familiar
It’s late at night and the two of you either made plans for a happy ending or figured a hot and steamy make out session is what a 2am visit would eventually lead to. An intense round of tongue wrestling ensues and next thing you know, any clothing you were wearing has been strewn throughout the… Read More Ignoring the Limpness
Hangovers aren’t really feelings you ever want to return but every now and then, I just might entertain the idea of being entertained. It’s been several years since I’ve been seen the one called The Black Russian, but we have both been in and out of the online dating scene so we have chatted briefly a time… Read More The Come Back Charlie’s
They say it’s best to try everything at least twice and that’s exactly what I did with this latest hangover who as of Wednesday, so it seems like this was a mutual agreement to hit it and quit it. Our initial encounter went pretty well and if you recall, the sexual interaction was a little… Read More The Selfish Fucker
For the first time in the years I’ve been writing this blog, a post was sent out loaded with Spam content including everything from naughty messages to Cialis recommendations. Could it be purely coincidental since “erectile dysfunction” was one of the tagged phrases? I don’t know but apologize profusely for any confusion. While there were… Read More Too Much Continued….Minus the Spam!
Last night’s date with a man I originally met over two years ago was painstakingly boring and from the moment we walked into a local spot for a few drinks, my mind was already wandering to the dirty limits. Who was I going to fuck once I get rid of this sappy dude? Sounds pretty… Read More Fifty Shades of…
So far, so good with Out of Sight and while I think the crack in his foundation has been clearly identified based on our conversations, my focus will be away from the negative and more on the potential that he’s offering. Unfortunately for his friends and family, the relocation date has been pushed ahead by… Read More Small World
“Move your arms again and I will punish you and go harder, do you understand? Keep them up just like that. I told you when I saw you again; I was going to make sure we parted ways with you being extremely satisfied.” I can remember nodding followed by some kind of inaudible sound coming out… Read More The Crymax Experience
Remember a few posts back when I was getting all jungle fever with it? I mentioned that I was finally ready to start paying attention to men of a different persuasion and get my swirl on. For my slow readers, I’m a black woman who has dated nothing but black men (unless mixed races counts for… Read More The Other White Meat
I’m not sure what it was that jostled me out of the bed this morning, because it sure as hell wasn’t the chime of my alarm. Memo to self: Pressing “Save” is a critical step when changing the time of your wake-up call. Was it the sound and smell of the horny neighborhood skunks getting it… Read More Thoughts & Achy Nipples
I just returned to work from a last minute, and very much needed doctor appointment. In exchange for a $10 co-pay, twenty minutes of waiting, an assistant who couldn’t stop gushing about how much he lovvvved my name, and a doctor who kept using Kobe Bryant analogies? A diagnosis of thigh or abductor tendonitis, two… Read More The Importance of Stretching