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A Message for The Older Woman
Guys who have been stuck in the friend zone are now the most sought after men on earth!
- Bad First Dates, Dating Over 30, Dating While Black (DWB), Dumb Shit Guys Do, First Dates, Online Dating, Plenty of Fail, Settling or Compromising?, Single Girl Problems, Slider Posts, Slider Posts
I Can Work with Men
The funny thing about dating is that there are so many different types of men and situations out there so you really are placed in a position of picking your poison. My last date from a few months ago really had it together. He owned a couple of properties, had a stable career with no debt and only one child and was just as eager as myself to find someone special and settle down. That same man was also a self-centered, controlling, condescending asshole who believed he was the crème de la crème and couldn’t understand why or how any woman could reject him. But like the others he’d complained…
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Too Pooped for Friday Meet Ups!
Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday. And now you’re on day five and like most people, have likely been fantasizing about this day arriving like crazy. No matter what, it always seems like the longest week ever, so when someone asks me on a date for the first time on a Friday night, I often cringe. Tired, achy feet, sore back, neck strain, needing a few extra hours of sleep, annoyed with almost everything traffic-related. I really just want to go home and strip off my bra, shoes and hair (you read right ) but noooooooo- I have a date that I’ve already committed to. Let me dig a little further. It’s …
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When a Woman’s Ready to Go
Here’s how you blow up 18 years in a single text message: “I’m such a punk because I should have said this last night. I can NOT separate these (new) emotions from amazing sexual chemistry and with each visit, it gets worse. Confuses me and I send stupid shit like this. But… I do want sooooo much more in my life than just an occasional tryst, no matter how incredible. I know what I want and you can’t give me that. So for me, it feels like I’m settling and I can’t do that. Not the best way to tell you and for that I’m sorry.” I’ve said this before…
- Friends with Benefits, My Dating Hangovers, Settling or Compromising?, Single Girl Problems, The Non Committal Man or Woman
Shit or Get Off The Pot
When a woman is ready to let go, nothing can change her mind.
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Breaking the Rules
Rule #1 of having a friend with benefits – don’t catch feelings. Rule #2 of having a friend with benefits – don’t catch feelings. If only there was a manual for how to successfully carry on with this type of thing. Too bad I never thought to read 10 Simple Rules to Maintaining a Successful Sex Buddy Relationship. Here’s my deal. In an effort to minimize my slut factor throughout the years, I have kept the company of two male “companions” whose sole purpose in my life was to dick me down. No drama, no dating, no regular telephone calls and no questioning of each other’s dealings or actions in anyway.…
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High Standards, Single Women
Why do men date low maintenance women?
- Dumb Shit Guys Do, First Dates, Interracial Dating, My Dating Hangovers, Online Dating, Plenty of Fail, Shitty Dating Profiles, Single Girl Problems
He Didn’t Wear Heels
Last week’s date marked the first time I’ve gone out with a non-black man and while one “quick” meet up will never allow me to claim an interracial dating experience, at least I was open coerced enough to have tried it. During that excruciating hour and eleven minutes with the hangover I’ll call Guido, a few things became perfectly clear to me: (1) nearly every man lies about at least one thing on his dating profile, (2) broken English and improper verb tense isn’t something I’ll ever be able to stomach, and (3) being told how beautiful I am repeatedly in one sitting is a little creepy. That being said,…
- Friends with Benefits, Settling or Compromising?, Sex/Romance, Single Girl Problems, The Non Committal Man or Woman
The 18 Year Situation
I only want him for the sex
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5 Things Your Single Friends Don’t Want to Hear on Valentine’s Day
Overpriced Hallmark cards, cutesy cuddly teddy bears, fat cherubs, tons of flowers and far too many commercials for that special engagement ring means it’s that time of year again. Talk about sensory overload from all of these things even before the public displays of affection kick in and guess what? Single folks are normally pretty cool with those of you in love, wanting to showcase this moment. We’re happy for you and hope that you all of this and then some BUT there’s just one thing – we wished you would stop sharing so many details. We don’t want to hear it. For some, this single awareness day is…
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