Sometimes I find myself wondering about this prolonged status as a single woman, wondering if the level of scrutiny and skepticism placed upon men I have encountered has been a little too much. While chatting with a long-time friend about this, I was reminded of all of the ridiculous experiences from my past, particularly the… Read More A Different Kind of Infidelity: Cyber Cheating (Part 1 of 2)
He didn’t have any standards, so she kept lowering hers. … Read More The Death of Dating
When people confuse the profile as an autobiographical novel…… Read More Could this be the LONGEST one EVER?
Last night’s conversation with July Guy was GREAT, but it almost didn’t happen because after I had given him my number for him to (per his words, have a chat), all he did was fire off a flurry of text messages and not one was asking when I was free to talk. I hate that… Read More First Conversations with Someone New
On and off, hide and reveal, resign and restart. The vicious cycle known as online dating and for the life of me, I just don’t understand how men can continue to sabotage themselves by ruining the most important part of the process – the dating profile and specifically, the photos. Do these men not realize… Read More Profile photos men shouldn’t share
Someone who’s been crushing on me since the 9th grade just posted this on my wall. Such a sweetheart of a guy, who’s smart, kind, intelligent and…. Very married. It always seems to work out that way but, still -a nice gesture. I hope the lovers are enjoying the day and my singletons as well.… Read More Happy Valentine’s Day
“When someone shows you who they are believe them; the first time” – Maya Angelou It’s just after 6am and I just ended a telephone call by telling two bold-faced lies to the man on the other end. The first lie was that I was entering underground parking (with not a structure in sight) and would… Read More When He Shows the First Sign of Crazy
There are a couple of things a woman can do at the end of the date that was a bust. She can make a call to one of her girlfriends offering up a play-by-play of things went, find something else to get into so the night doesn’t end up being a total waste or be… Read More I Tried
An overwhelming instinct to protect myself from certain situations that can be detrimental to my well-being has suddenly kicked into overdrive. This is really just a fancy way of saying whenever I’m feeling like the situation with a man is a little confusing or uncomfortable for me, the anchor comes up and this old ship… Read More Stop Over Thinking, It’s Just Great Sex
I’m caught up in this vicious cycle where the levels of frustration are so bad that I say to hell with it all. I take down all of my decorations and pretty pictures, and might even leave some threatening note before finally ending things for good. After a couple of weeks or so, boredom usually… Read More We broke up, but I’m back…
“Que paso con su ponchito?” Some of my friends just sit back and read about my dating dilemmas, while others try coming up with a fix. So when my good friend Estelle asked during lunch “What’s up with my man”, then suggested I finally step out of the dating box and go out with… Read More Date night with a….
Nothing is constant but change and this concept most certainly applies to dating. Over the last ten years or so, the rules of the game have changed drastically and this isn’t just because online dating is now one of the most popular ways to try finding that special someone but our society is now a… Read More Throwback Dating
“Finally, I have met my soul mate. He is a true lover of the Lord, engages me in deep and thought-provoking conversations and compliments me constantly. Never have I had a man tell me how beautiful I am several times a day, not even my ex-husband and I can’t recall the last time I have… Read More But at Least She HAS a Man!
They say it’s best to try everything at least twice and that’s exactly what I did with this latest hangover who as of Wednesday, so it seems like this was a mutual agreement to hit it and quit it. Our initial encounter went pretty well and if you recall, the sexual interaction was a little… Read More The Selfish Fucker