For the first time in the years I’ve been writing this blog, a post was sent out loaded with Spam content including everything from naughty messages to Cialis recommendations. Could it be purely coincidental since “erectile dysfunction” was one of the tagged phrases? I don’t know but apologize profusely for any confusion. While there were… Read More Too Much Continued….Minus the Spam!
Things have been noticeably quiet on the blogging scene and it hasn’t been due to lack of activity, and I really appreciate the optimistic messengers. The people who have reached out to me wondering who the mystery man could be, figuring no news is good news. Ah…the kindhearted souls. Wrong. No Mr. Anything outside of… Read More Have I Become THAT Woman?
Finish last. Sadly, it’s true. I seem to be attracted to every man that is wrong for me and when one comes along who is all things great in so many areas, I can’t force attraction that isn’t there. This must be a curse. I just had a lovely dinner and an entertaining conversation with… Read More Nice Guys Always…
Is it just the women who seem to lose their flipping minds when they find out their significant other is fooling around? Maybe not, but let’s just say this – we are certainly the ones more likely to let the entire world know when we have been done wrong. I came across this on… Read More There is NOTHING like a woman scorned!
Someone asked me this morning if there was still Hope or if things had returned to a hopeless state. My reply was that things were so-so which means I’m pretty much winging it at this point. The last update on him was after the detailed conversation had about dislikes, ways and preferences which left me… Read More Party of Three
For the last couple of days, I have been trying to figure out procrastinating on posting about my lastest date. Fresh out of the caribbean where the men worshipped me like the super bad chick that I am, right into one of the hottest sushi bars in LA for a first time meeting with a… Read More I’m Here to Date, Not to Screw
Is it possible that some women will never be successful at dating or having a relationship because they are undateable? Are there some who have so many negative traits or behaviors to the point that most men will likely disregard them, no matter how attractive? Why is it that having a strong will, the desire… Read More The Undateable Woman – Guest Post for Cupid’s Library
It’s a new day and my mind is doing far too much thinking about this dating situation with the latest candidate who I’m still hoping doesn’t end up becoming one of the hangovers. God knows there have been too many in a span of about five months, so while a lot of those good… Read More One to Grow On
It was just a few days ago when I was sharing my happiness after having a pretty good date, a mid-week first meeting at that. But you should also remember that the word “cautiously” was somewhere between happiness at the same time, and since Untitled (the hangover I couldn’t think of a name for)… Read More Unofficial Rules of Dating
As of a few moments ago, I just canceled my second date with Enron only he doesn’t know it yet. You’ll notice that this post doesn’t have a title because hell, I’m a little conflicted on what it should be. While I always said the direct approach is the best way of letting someone… Read More Enron
“Are we talking rough as in I do okay here and there or rough as in Top Ramen every night for dinner? His response was “Top Ramen for breakfast, lunch and dinner”. This was the warning sign Broke Boo was giving me, a true depiction of how his current financial status wasn’t the best.… Read More Should You Date When You’re Broke- Part II
I haven’t even had a chance to post the second part of the Broke Boo experience, nor have I been able to give a snippet of the datemare with Anger Management dude. Still, I must share this example in sheer stupidity and/or desperation. Coming across as the desperately seeking single acting as if you found… Read More Signs of a Desperate Man
Dating is something that consumes both time and energy and for the life of me, I will never understand how the cheaters and players are able to carry on without burning out. While having two dates back to back in the same weekend may seem appealing (yeah, I’m hot stuff) and in the right direction… Read More Should You Date When You’re Broke? Part I
It never ceases to amaze me how accurate I normally am when I see a profile picture and think “Oh hell to the no”. I mean literally, looking at one photo and the hairs on my neck spring to attention and nudge me to press the next button. Sure, you’re probably thinking that I may… Read More A Photo Worth Three Words
I’m ready to lay Special Agent’s story to rest in the archives. Thank you all for the text messages, BBM’s, emails and posts in response to “Dishonest Men, Jaded Women. Several of you who choose not to comment here on the blog seem to feel that my reaction was a little too nonchalant, not angry… Read More Guest Post: Dishonest Men, Jaded Women