• Cheating,  Friends with Benefits,  Married Men

    Gotta Love Facebook!

    Ordinarily,  this type of post wouldn’t be anything worth giving a second glance to but there’s just one problem- it’s ME sharing this on a dating blog! You have to love it when Facebook makes suggestions about who to add and most times, it’s someone you would rather ignore.  Sometimes,  I might take a looksie to see what the person’s wall or photos says about how they’re living.  Last night,  the profile of a guy who’s been an occasional friend with benefits for a few years. Love the profile that is open to the world because in a matter of minutes, I saw that he was still in his high-visibility…

  • Cheating,  My Dating Hangovers,  Relationship 101,  THIS is Why I'm Single!

    There is NOTHING like a woman scorned!

      Is it just the women who seem to lose their flipping minds when they find out their significant other is fooling around?  Maybe not, but let’s just say this – we are certainly the ones more likely to let the entire world know when we have been done wrong. I came across this on Facebook earlier today and man, it brought back some memories: If you want the full story, check it out herehttp://www.theblaze.com/stories/2013/06/03/girlfriends-amazing-break-up-letter-goes-mega-viral-everything-elseis-at-kelsis-house/ Hmm.. talk about a flashback. The story of the man I just knew I was destined to be with has yet to be shared on My Dating Hangovers, but believe me- it’s a good one. …

  • Uncategorized

    Why is that phone always locked?

    This question came up on someone’s Facebook page this morning, and when I saw over 50 comments within ten minutes, I had to take a peek. There has only been one man I have experienced the eye-over-his-shoulder-peaking-at-the-password with. Rescue. I guess it was the whole deal about him being separated without divorce filings in the works that made me somehwhat suspicious. I figured we were at home and not around some random snoops or bad guys who wanted to do evil with what was in his Iphone. Wrong. That shit stayed on lockdown all of the time, so call me what you want, it bothered me. In fact, I’m normally…

  • Guest Posts,  My Dating Hangovers,  Settling or Compromising?,  THIS is Why I'm Single!,  Uncategorized

    Guest Post: Dishonest Men, Jaded Women

    I’m ready to lay Special Agent’s story to rest in the archives. Thank you all for the text messages, BBM’s, emails and posts in response to “Dishonest Men, Jaded Women. Several of you who choose not to comment here on the blog seem to feel that my reaction was a little too nonchalant, not angry enough, no signs of “slash that fool’s tires”. Trust me when I say this, I was over dealing with him at 4am Saturday morning before all of this went down. The next woman who doesn’t understand his brush off, special assignments or mood swings and has to Google “how to date an asshole” can deal…

  • My Dating Hangovers,  THIS is Why I'm Single!,  Uncategorized

    Dishonest Men, Jaded Women

    I can’t even front right now, I’m feeling pretty disgusted right now and for just a moment, was licking a wound or two.  Okay, I get it – Special Agent was not a person who ever should have been a contender for dating so realizing that months ago, I made the awful mistake of agreeing to remain friends.  This was all him, he reached out to me, he initiated most types of contacts with each other but damn his actions are just so foul.  I’m disappointed and a little hurt that someone who professed to be such a stand up kind of man could be so dishonest.  We agreed not…

  • My Dating Hangovers,  THIS is Why I'm Single!

    The Post I Wasn’t Expecting to Post

    I feel as if I would be cheating all of you if I didn’t share how last evening’s visit went with Special Agent.  In fact, I’m still in shock from the conversation I had while waiting for my oil change, and certainly the remaining conversation that followed which lasted over an hour. Let me just say these two things: First, the Internet is an amazing place.  Second, men who are cheating or dishonest fail to realize that at some point, they are going to slip up and forget something. Right now, Special Agent is probably trying to figure out how he is going to apply his special investigative and negotiation…

  • Uncategorized

    The Facebook Diaries

    “My wife filed for divorce today and I don’t know it yet. To all my friends – I have been cheating on my wife for three years…. This is what Facebook will do to weak people.” Damn. It was past my bedtime and as I went back to Facebook to comment on a reply to one of my posts, hit the home button instead and BAM! This was the message I saw posted on my friend John’s* page. I stopped for a second and said out loud “What the hell?? This must be a joke” but when I clicked his profile, I realized it was far from being a joke.…

  • Plenty of Fail,  Red Flags,  THIS is Why I'm Single!,  Uncategorized

    New Kids On The Block

    “I’m going to have to buckle down and build a backbone because this really sucks!” My reply: “Come my child, let me hold you. I will reassure you that you’re not crazy when men confuse you, will comfort you when a man disappoints you and curse you if you keep asking me if dating is really this bad.” Okay well that wasn’t really my reply, but it surely is what I feel like saying to the newcomers to the dating scene or who I’ll refer to as The New Kids On The Block. Let’s assume these newly single men and women were homes and they’ve suddenly found themselves back on…

  • Relationship 101,  Uncategorized

    What am I worried about?

    “I’m having a baby and am so excited, but how do I tell my fiance’ it isn’t his?” “Having sex with him bores me to DEATH. He has no idea what foreplay is or what it takes to turn me on. The very thought of him touching me makes me nauseous.  Still, I love him so.” “I don’t know what I’m going through right now, and while I still want the marriage, I have my needs. I know I should have stopped months ago, but playing out my fantasies with another man is what keeps me sane.” One story I just saw on another blog, one is actual and the…

  • THIS is Why I'm Single!,  Uncategorized

    I’m back!

    Okay okay, fuss at me later!  As I’m sitting here with a compress on my neck and shoulder that is probably burning through a layer of my skin because it’s way to hot, I’ve got to write!!! First, confession time – I am terrible at posting over long weekends and yes, I know, this is probably a little retarded when you figure you have MORE TIME away from work to blog right?  Um…. yeah. So your girl has been missing in action and has been recovering from the partying, the men, the drinking and for the past couple of days.  Plus, my body feels like an old ’67 Chevy so I’ve been making love to with a bottle…