• Break Ups

    Facebook Knows All Your Business

    Why Chris Brown,  why?!?!? I guess this could be somewhat of a hypocritical statement since I’m a dating blogger and have spilled my guts about every intricate detail when it comes to my experiences but really – does every intricate detail of what goes on in a relationship have to be broadcasted? We’ve all seen how the posts go from “Out with my baby” and “Love my boo”  to posts like “Good times with my girls” and “Ladies night out” only to finally see that relationship status changed to “Single” or “It’s complicated”.  Some are nice and simple while others get down and dirty like this one: For as long…

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    The Facebook Diaries

    “My wife filed for divorce today and I don’t know it yet. To all my friends – I have been cheating on my wife for three years…. This is what Facebook will do to weak people.” Damn. It was past my bedtime and as I went back to Facebook to comment on a reply to one of my posts, hit the home button instead and BAM! This was the message I saw posted on my friend John’s* page. I stopped for a second and said out loud “What the hell?? This must be a joke” but when I clicked his profile, I realized it was far from being a joke.…

  • Relationship 101,  THIS is Why I'm Single!,  Uncategorized

    Vicious cycle

    Same old stuff in my world and apparently, a few others as well. Oh, the woes of dating. I just got off the phone with one of my good friends named Kim*, and although we JUST had this conversation earlier this week, there we were again talking about stupid men. I reminded her about the do’s and don’ts on how to handle a friend with benefits (FWB), and quickly realized that too many of us are dealing with the ups and downs that can drain the hell out of you. We (myself included) are caught up in a vicious cycle where we try to delete a person out of our…

  • THIS is Why I'm Single!

    Ignore friend request

    As quickly as he made a re-entry into my life, Come Back Charlie will likely make an even quicker exit all over an ignored Facebook request.  Well, maybe not all because of this because while I haven’t exactly been trying too hard to build up any lines of communication, he isn’t really impressing me either.  Last night as I stirred out of my sleep for a moment, I saw a new Facebook notification – Friend Request from Come Back Charlie.  I looked at it and the first thing that came to mind was what the hell for and the second was should I say no now or leave it pending…