I’m still here and yes, still single. This chick here has been quite busy over the holidays and am just now starting to get into the swing of things after ending the year trying to knock out some of my goals that I’d set which included the usual suspects such as: losing weight, saving money,… Read More Single With Benefits
We might have a winner! We might have a winner! We might have a winner! In case the point isn’t being emphasized enough, I think we might have a winner so let’s just call him Winner! Last night’s date was a smashing success and even better, the feeling is mutual since we ended the night… Read More Great First Dates
Here’s how you blow up 18 years in a single text message: “I’m such a punk because I should have said this last night. I can NOT separate these (new) emotions from amazing sexual chemistry and with each visit, it gets worse. Confuses me and I send stupid shit like this. But… I do want… Read More When a Woman’s Ready to Go
When a woman is ready to let go, nothing can change her mind.… Read More Shit or Get Off The Pot
Rule #1 of having a friend with benefits – don’t catch feelings. Rule #2 of having a friend with benefits – don’t catch feelings. If only there was a manual for how to successfully carry on with this type of thing. Too bad I never thought to read 10 Simple Rules to Maintaining a Successful… Read More Breaking the Rules
I’m addicted to him. I realize this addiction after my latest encounter with Papi just a while ago, and while we have been at the sexual affair for almost 20 years, the unthinkable seems to be happening. It just keeps getting better and this feeling is what frightens me the most. Incredibly sensual and the… Read More That One Connection
I only want him for the sex… Read More The 18 Year Situation
If someone is struggling with an addiction or having suicidal tendencies, there’s help. One call to a dedicated number can offer support, fresh perspectives and hopefully prevent someone from doing something they’ll end up regretting. So why in the hell has no one ever created a crisis hot line for dating? You know we need… Read More Girl, Don’t Send That Text!
Last night’s date with a man I originally met over two years ago was painstakingly boring and from the moment we walked into a local spot for a few drinks, my mind was already wandering to the dirty limits. Who was I going to fuck once I get rid of this sappy dude? Sounds pretty… Read More Fifty Shades of…
“Damn Carmen, it sounds like you are further ahead with things than he is, so I’m not saying get rid of him altogether but you may need to just pedal slower and allow him time to catch up. Then on the other hand, he’s acting like a man and telling you what you want to… Read More Pedal Slowly OR Just Stop?
“Move your arms again and I will punish you and go harder, do you understand? Keep them up just like that. I told you when I saw you again; I was going to make sure we parted ways with you being extremely satisfied.” I can remember nodding followed by some kind of inaudible sound coming out… Read More The Crymax Experience
After 6 days of soaking in the blazing sun, sipping Sammy Sosas by the pool, and reveling in the beauty of the country and people of the Dominican Republic, I’m back! Back to reality, back to life, back to the dating scene and as much as I hate to say it, back to the… Read More Things to Do Before Vacation
For some reason, I have tried to convince myself that being more flexible and allowing for change in life will often result in good. Yet when it comes to dating and my relationships, this thought process always backfires and causes more headache than is worth. Some people often tell me that I’m a bit too… Read More No, We Can’t Be Friends
If only I had the energy to share the plethora of events that took place this past weekend, and normally there is never a dull moment. I accepted a double dog dare and ended up riding a mechanical bull for the first time, successfully managing to keep all body parts inside of my clothing. Next, I had the… Read More Suffering From Dating Burnout
I’m not sure what has come over me lately, but since having given up any potential ANYTHING with the lingering hangovers, my hormones have been on overload. More like on speed. Or even meth. So while one part of me is contemplating the dive back into the world of dating tonight, another part of me… Read More Shoes or No Shoes