• Dating Over 30,  First Dates,  Friend Zone

    Great First Dates

    We might have a winner! We might have a winner! We might have a winner! In case the point isn’t being emphasized enough, I think we might have a winner so let’s just call him Winner! Last night’s date was a smashing success and even better, the feeling is mutual since we ended the night by texting each other pretty much the same thing and woke up texting nearly the same words as last night which – we were happy to have met, enjoyed the relaxed and open conversation an agreed how everything flowed effortlessly.  Our chemistry was amazing and if you were looking over at our table while we…

  • Friends with Benefits,  Single Girl Problems

    When a Woman’s Ready to Go

    Here’s how you blow up 18 years in a single text message: “I’m such a punk because I should have said this last night. I can NOT separate these (new) emotions from amazing sexual chemistry and with each visit,  it gets worse. Confuses me and I send stupid shit like this. But… I do want sooooo much more in my life than just an occasional tryst, no matter how incredible.  I know what I want and you can’t give me that. So for me, it feels like I’m settling and I can’t do that. Not the best way to tell you and for that I’m sorry.” I’ve said this before…

  • Friends with Benefits,  Settling or Compromising?,  Sex/Romance,  Single Girl Problems

    Breaking the Rules

    Rule #1 of having a friend with benefits – don’t catch feelings. Rule #2 of having a friend with benefits – don’t catch feelings. If only there was a manual for how to successfully carry on with this type of thing.  Too bad I never thought to read 10 Simple Rules to Maintaining a Successful Sex Buddy Relationship. Here’s my deal. In an effort to minimize my slut factor throughout the years, I have kept the company of two male “companions” whose sole purpose in my life was to dick me down.  No drama, no dating, no regular telephone calls and no questioning of each other’s dealings or actions in anyway.…

  • Settling or Compromising?,  Sex/Romance

    That One Connection

    I’m addicted to him. I realize this addiction after my latest encounter with Papi just a while ago, and while we have been at the sexual affair for almost 20 years, the unthinkable seems to be happening. It just keeps getting better and this feeling is what frightens me the most. Incredibly sensual and the chemistry is always intense.  The kind of interactions that most people will never experience in a life time. We continue to explore and no take each other’s bodies to another level.  So tonight, it was my turn to be the dominant as I talked and nanny instructed him through each and every touch, kiss and…

  • Sex/Romance

    Fifty Shades of…

    Last night’s date with a man I originally met over two years ago was painstakingly boring and from the moment we walked into a local spot for a few drinks, my mind was already wandering to the dirty limits. Who was I going to fuck once I get rid of this sappy dude?  Sounds pretty bad to think about a man while in the presence of another but it is what it is.  The night (finally) came to an end with a church hug and as soon as this ass hit the seat, I was looking at my phone wondering who would be the suitor of choice. The first person…

  • Friends with Benefits,  Sex/Romance,  Uncategorized

    The Crymax Experience

    “Move your arms again and I will punish you and go harder, do you understand? Keep them up just like that.  I told you when I saw you again; I was going to make sure we parted ways with you being extremely satisfied.” I can remember nodding followed by some kind of inaudible sound coming out of my mouth, which wasn’t good enough so he responded with a devilish grin and a deep thrust.   The reaction to that was a loud yelp and “Okay sweetie, I’m sorry” which turned him on even more as he began to rhythmically drill into hidden corners inside of me. Soft whimpers of pleasure escaped my…

  • Uncategorized

    14 Years and Counting!

    So I’m a little off schedule; while I have a short two week break before school reconvenes, I was supposed to be creating an account. Yes, firing up old sparky and opening an online dating account. Instead, I’ve been busy doing everything else in between. Tonight, certainly being the bonus at the end of an amazingly exciting week with what else? A little booty. While I’m waiting to get back out there and meet my future ex-boyfriend, why not indulge in what my girl E calls WMS – wanting and meaningless sex? A few quick “Where are you”, “What are your plans the rest of the evening” text messages and…

  • Uncategorized

    The Best Lovers Ever- Contender # 2

    Day 2 of the New Year has been quite productive and I’m not even trying. I have been relaxing and camped out at my Mom’s house and went through all of my old e-mails I’d been meaning to read, save or delete, balanced the checkbook, made my to-do lists, and of course – checked out a couple of blog posts that I’d been slacking on reading (though I still have quite a few more to catch up on).  When it  was time to move on to doing some organizing, I cam across several MDH drafts I meant to post last year, but never got around to posting them. One of them was titled…