• Guest Posts,  Sex/Romance,  What Women Want

    Can Incompatibility Be The Problem?

    He’s giving me that look again, rubbing on my leg and talking dirty to me.  I know what he wants and don’t know if I can stomach another round with him. In fact, the last time I almost reached towards the nightstand to get B.O.B. and this was while we were having sex. I have been fortunate enough to have had some marvelous sexual conquests in my life. However just the same, there have been a few men who have fallen short (pun intended) in the bedroom and if this was just someone I was having a little fun with, I would chop it up as a loss and move…

  • THIS is Why I'm Single!

    Stop Over Thinking, It’s Just Great Sex

    An overwhelming instinct to protect myself from certain situations that can be detrimental to my well-being has suddenly kicked into overdrive. This is really just a fancy way of saying whenever I’m feeling like the situation with a man is a little confusing or uncomfortable for me, the anchor comes up and this old ship gets to sailing. It’s funny (well, not really) how just a few days ago I was skipping through the field of daisies, still on a high after the latest tryst with my long-term cut buddy Papi which I’ll say again, was one of the best sessions. I could just brush it off as having been…

  • Settling or Compromising?,  Sex/Romance

    That One Connection

    I’m addicted to him. I realize this addiction after my latest encounter with Papi just a while ago, and while we have been at the sexual affair for almost 20 years, the unthinkable seems to be happening. It just keeps getting better and this feeling is what frightens me the most. Incredibly sensual and the chemistry is always intense.  The kind of interactions that most people will never experience in a life time. We continue to explore and no take each other’s bodies to another level.  So tonight, it was my turn to be the dominant as I talked and nanny instructed him through each and every touch, kiss and…

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    The Best Lovers Ever- Contender # 2

    Day 2 of the New Year has been quite productive and I’m not even trying. I have been relaxing and camped out at my Mom’s house and went through all of my old e-mails I’d been meaning to read, save or delete, balanced the checkbook, made my to-do lists, and of course – checked out a couple of blog posts that I’d been slacking on reading (though I still have quite a few more to catch up on).  When it  was time to move on to doing some organizing, I cam across several MDH drafts I meant to post last year, but never got around to posting them. One of them was titled…

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    No ring, no nookie?

      No matter what, there are some topics dealing with sex, dating and relationships that never get old – women giving it up or holding out is certainly one of them. This morning my frustrated-single-but-hopeful friend sent me a message telling me about her celibacy stint, proclaiming that it was actually going well and that she wondered if her cutting off one of her favorite past times would get her any closer to matrimony.  She proceeds to share a “no ring, no nookie” (NRNN) success story of someone she knew who had a ring within 6 months after holding out on her guy, feigning a vow of celibacy. 6 months?  Here…

  • Relationship 101

    Training in Session

                              My life seems to be on overdrive as of late – finalizing my career change ideas, researching masters degree programs, lounging in large pools in Vegas. I mean really, that can just be a bit overwhelming for a girl, you know? Of course I realize there’s  no excuse (except a lame one) for me having left the writing alone for over a week. None. Especially when I fuss at other bloggers and remind them of that handy WordPress mobile application we can always use whenever we’re not near a computer. So what about my dating life and…

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    Is Feeling A Little Frisky

    I plan on laying in bed singing these lyrics, air drying, waiting… Mmmm. In the thundering rain you stare into my eyes I can feel your hand moving up my thighs skirt around my waist wall against my face I can feel your lips I don’t wanna stop just because people walking watchin’us I don’t give a damn what they think I want you now I dont wanna stop just because you feel so good inside of my love I’m not gonna stop no no no I want you all I wanna say is Anytime,anyplace I don’t care who’s around anytime,and any place I don’t care who’s around Dancing on…

  • Relationship 101,  THIS is Why I'm Single!,  Uncategorized

    Can your lengthy single life ruin a new relationship?

    “The longer a person has been single, the harder it will be to have a meaningful relationship with them. Is this true or false and why?” This was a question posted by a friend on Facebook this afternoon and before I browsed through the replies that included the yes, no’s and don’t know’s. One of the people commented “False because while you are single you should be learning yourself, learning what you want and don’t want so that you will be better at selecting your next mate. Timing is everything.”  Bless her heart, this lady tried but I think she missed the point or perhaps looked at the question a…