• Red Flags

    It’s an Epidemic!

    A few weeks ago I was enjoying lunch with a group of friends.  One says she couldn’t understand why a beautiful woman who was also classy, smart and well-rounded could be single.  So very, very single.  She hears some of the stories but doesn’t know the full extent of the dating nightmares. Another friend sat quietly and then said how she couldn’t wait until the right caliber of man, with HIS shit together came around.  She is a follower of the blog and knows of all the gritty, behind the scenes stories. The screenshot above was snagged from a Facebook post the night before last and not surprisingly, the woman…

  • Guest Posts,  Online Dating,  THIS is Why I'm Single!,  Uncategorized

    The Undateable Woman – Guest Post for Cupid’s Library

    Is it possible that some women will never be successful at dating or having a relationship because they are undateable?  Are there some who have so many negative traits or behaviors to the point that most men will likely disregard them, no matter how attractive?  Why is it that having a strong will, the desire to be successful or having expectations qualities that are acceptable for most, but black women are branded as being too demanding? There isn’t enough time in blog world for me to touch on everything, but there is time for me to start addressing this issue outside of my inner circle which is why The Undateable…