An overwhelming instinct to protect myself from certain situations that can be detrimental to my well-being has suddenly kicked into overdrive. This is really just a fancy way of saying whenever I’m feeling like the situation with a man is a little confusing or uncomfortable for me, the anchor comes up and this old ship… Read More Stop Over Thinking, It’s Just Great Sex
Finish last. Sadly, it’s true. I seem to be attracted to every man that is wrong for me and when one comes along who is all things great in so many areas, I can’t force attraction that isn’t there. This must be a curse. I just had a lovely dinner and an entertaining conversation with… Read More Nice Guys Always…
Just like that employer deciding that the maximum number of applications for an open position has been reached, I have officially closed out my online dating profile so of course this could mean one of two things. The first being the optimistic stance that a wonderful person is now filling my phone with “good morning… Read More No Longer Accepting Applications
It’s a new day and my mind is doing far too much thinking about this dating situation with the latest candidate who I’m still hoping doesn’t end up becoming one of the hangovers. God knows there have been too many in a span of about five months, so while a lot of those good… Read More One to Grow On
“So the man has issues, at least he’s willing to spring for a $500 per night date. Stop looking for perfection and just roll with him”. These are the words heard from a good friend ealier this week who tried to chastize me for complaining that I had a great time with Tall Glass… Read More Who’s Looking For Perfection?
“You really need to update the blog so your readers know this is what really happens when you’re dealing with relationship issues”. I wouldn’t expect to hear something like this from a man, and especially not Special Agent but this is what he told me when I shared that there was a little more… Read More Did we make up or WHAT?
A Week of Revelations “Only time will tell what happens with him or any of these other three OR any of the others I didn’t have time to mention here.” I guess the most appropriate place to begin this post is by starting where I left… Read More A Week of Revelations
Blame the bastards at Hewlett Packard for my delays in posting! Yes, my laptop is truly on its last leg and I haven’t been able to access the Internet in almost two weeks. Of course there’s the back-up plan using the Blackberry tool but it’s just easier in front of a real computer to spew… Read More A Tale of Four Men
“Come back to Jamaica…. our home is your home…” I know I’m totally dating myself, but does anyone else remember that little jingle from back in the 80’s? Let me just say that Montego Bay was everything I had hoped it could be and then some. I’ve been back in town now for almost… Read More I’m Back!!!!!!
It has been eight days since Rescue and I had our latest “incident”, seven days since we last saw each other, and six days since I apologized and two hours have passed since he and I had what I hope was the beginning of a break through conversation. Yes, I apologized and the reason why is… Read More Part Deaux
And those bitches are like the Santa Ana’s in the dead of summer – hot and swift. It was just a week or so ago that Kim sent me a BBM ladened with her latest dating woes and said- “Damn girl, things are going so well with you and Rescue, we won’t have anything… Read More The winds are changing…
So not what I wanted to read today: “…On the face of it, a combination between Capricorn and Libra may not seem the best of matches…” As much as I enjoy reading my horoscope to see how accurate, twisted or completely WRONG the forecast may be, one area I’d never really given much thought to was… Read More Are we compatible?
The stages of a break-up. We’re probably familiar with what they are or may have at least heard of them, but they’re the different transitions we go through with our minds and emotions that are really on the verge of a break-DOWN, depending on how involved you are with your significant other, boyfriend or… Read More 72 Hour Gag Order
Finally, the end of the day is here! When you’ve got a lot of stuff on your mind, doesn’t the 8-hour work day seem more like a 28 hour flight sandwiched between two large people with no a/c and a bad itch down there? Yep, pretty much like torture. So here’s part two of this… Read More Closed Mouths Don’t Get Fed
I know you should never leave home angry but as I hope to catch more red lights than ever before to write this, I’m pretty upset. Okay, understatement. Pretty pissed. I’m trying to figure out what I’m so upset, replaying how I just stomped out of the house moments ago without the usual kiss and… Read More My Hump Wednesday