Uh oh….. Of course you all remember me writing about the really cool guy? You know, the one who is great in many ways but has three major deal breakers that I cant seem to budge on?
So the last week or so, I’ve noticed he has gone radio silent. Not completely ignoring me or anything, but the couple of times a day text exchanges and one a day phone calls have gone to every other day or so. Not a problem really, because I already have him the state of the union address, right?
Well…. Yesterday I put the feelers out there and sent him a “Hey stranger” text. He replies that he missed me and asked who the replacement guy was?
Funny, I figured he had a “Carmen Filler” as well and returned the question. Real Cool guy says there isn’t a replacement and felt I just wasn’t make myself available enough.
I replied with what anyone else would reply with if you’re A. Busted or B. Have nothing else to say- “Lol”. Followed by the reply that is just as lame- “I’ve just been busy with work and all”.
I know, I suck. But don’t act like Im the only one.
Any who, I think he knew my reply was bullshit, so we left it at that.
So……. (I know, I am totally overusing “so”, but Im posting from my crackberry, so give me a pass), a few moments ago, I get what every single person either wants to see OR not see… “What are you doing for Christmas and New Years Eve?”
Is he just asking out of curiosity or just making small talk? Or does he want…. Like to get together during the holidays and we are NOT together??
What do you think? ( If you’re not sure, go back and read that post again so you can get a feel for our situation.)
I just replied and kept it simple. Said I was relaxing with my family for Christmas and had no idea about New Years Eve. Of course, I would be rude if I didn’t ask the same.
His reply? “I’ll probably watch some old movies and crack open a van of chili beans”.
Is he being funny or attempting to gain sympathy?
I haven’t replied to THAT one yet. Stay tuned!