I’ve come to realize that there are a lot of people out there who have no idea what they want and to be honest, they’re a little too old to still be in the discovery and “figuring stuff out” phases of their lives. Particularly, when it comes to dating, most men I’ve met have no clue why they’re doing and what the end result should be.
In case you don’t remember or are just beginning to read me, one of my very first posts was about dating by definition which means:
Dating – v. A form of courtship, and may include any social activity undertaken by, typically, two persons with the aim of assessing the other’s suitability as a partner in an intimate relationship or as a spouse.
Surely, I can read and dissect those two lines and realize that most people DO NOT have the same thing in mind so purely for $hits and giggles, let’s see why you’re doing the dating thing.
Whether it’s the old-fashioned “we met randomly”, hook ups from friends or the old faithful internet connection.