Holiday Musings

Thanksgiving has come and gone and yes – I have so much to be thankful for, yet as I settle in for the evening, realize there is something missing.

Some great sex.

Alright, not exactly but it would be nice.

Where I was really going with this is that split second thought of “maybe I should have kept him”. I’m thinking that is from this food inebriation, but then again, maybe not.

Holidays are the biggest reminders of your non-relationship status. Even if you and the person you’re involved with aren’t quite at the meeting of the family stage, getting together for a little quality time afterwards is nice.

What is it about the months of September and October?

I’ve got to start planning these break ups better, because for the second year in a row, I’ve done it before a holiday.

Before Thanksgiving. Before Christmas and for goodness sake- before my birthday!!

I can’t say that I’m even remotely interested in another relationship anytime soon, but damn – I miss the good parts of the one I had.

Oh well – a couple more of these to go before the Spring round up.

I hope everyone’s Thanksgiving was relaxing and fulfilling!


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  1. It is hard to be alone during the holidays…I think it’s the only time of year I actually WISH I were in a relationship. What is it about this time of year???

    Maybe if you had great sex you would feel better…time to call the Black Russian? πŸ˜€

    1. It’s the season slow down! Sucks, doesn’t it?

      The weather is colder so you’re not as likely to be out hanging or partying and the holiday spirit is more family oriented and less “single friendly”.

      Black Russian?

      Uh no… I like my uterus being in its correct position. :p

  2. If it’s any consolation, there were probably lots of couples who were miserable yesterday and just fronting their happiness.

    You’ll get over this soon.

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