THIS is Why I'm Single!

Your husband says…

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” I had to delete you off my Facebook cause I was lusting for you extremely hard. WhoOooo. You just don’t know”.

“I did it because I stayed on your page, viewing your photos all day”.

“Please add me back”.

Text messages from someone’s husband. A newlywed of only a couple of months.

Reading this freaked me out a bit, but then I just felt sorry for this person’s wife.

Some woman is thinking she has the best man and greatest husband, all the while he’s telling another woman how he’s pining over her.

To the point where he needed to delete profiles?

He isn’t the first and sadly isn’t the only one.

From the random and unsolicited penis photos, to the risque inbox messages and of course the “let me take you out and show you a nice time” invites.

Several of these married men I have had to sever ties with because they continued their flagrant flirting and cyber-cheating.

I’m really starting to believe that there probably isn’t any woman who can truly be enough to satisfy a man.

No matter how smart, beautiful or well-rounded, there always seems to be something a man is going to need that his woman (especially his wife) cannot fulfill.

Sometimes I feel like the single people are the lucky ones.

At least we know what we’re up against.

If only I could tell these wives…

Aside from dealing with sleazy husbands and creepy randoms, I still haven’t reopened the dating chambers. Maybe next month I’ll be ready for the torture. Maybe.

Carmen ~

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Hangover - a let down following great excitement or excess. Wow. This one sentence describes nearly all of my dating and relationship experiences!

I'm a 30 year-old woman muddling through the Los Angeles dating scene and yes - Believe all that you've heard about the screwed up men and women in La-La Land.

This blog is of my actual experiences that will either make you chuckle, laugh out loud or maybe say "aw.....".

If your dating hangovers seem worse than the next person's, read on, post a comment and enjoy!



  1. I am so glad I’m not the only one going through this.
    I thought for sure I was somehow putting out misleading signals to these men.

    The unsolicited penis shots, I save. For the shear fact it’s proven to be excellent proof to have when he tries to tell the wife you’re the homewreckers etc. I’m sorry, I didn’t send pictures of your penis to myself from YOUR phone. Assface.

    Sigh. And men wonder why I have trust issues.

    1. Hell no Just Saying- you are not alone and I’m sure there are plenty more women who are subject to these antics than would care to admit.

      The sad part is that some of these men are/were pretty decent overall, but once I saw that their in-box messages were more than innocent compliments, I had to check them and quickly.

      Newleywed and still doing dirt? I can only imagine what they’re saying OR doing with women who allow it!

      Yeah, trust issues is right.

      I always tell my suitors that it would be better for them to just leave me/break up than to cheat on me and get caught.

      I’m not threatening them, but just saying…

  2. This is hilarious!! Really?? I think it’s even funnier to think that you probably have many more (unavailable) male Facebook friends who are getting off on your pictures but wouldn’t dare admit it.

    I think there’s some proof out there somewhere that men have a gene that makes them more prone to cheating.


    1. Oh yes Jessie, many more I’m sure.

      Sometimes I can tell which male friends are the undercover creeps just by them always inboxing a comment about a photo or a post.

      What’s the secrecy??

      Seriously, the dirt that goes on using computers is crazy.

      At the end of the day, I always say some people just should not get married. Period.

  3. Wow!! I go on a little vacation and come back to you dumping Rescue, reuniting then dumping him again and no mention of any other hangovers and now husbands begging for a Facebook add?

    I know you can’t wait for the new year!

  4. I often tell people that I could have live a totally different lifestyle if I was willing to sacrifice my morals and character to get down with the get down. It’s a shame because in many cases this is just a display of the man’s insecurity and inability to communicate with his wife/SO. *sigh*

    1. So true Mel, so true. Like I said, there are plenty more (sadly) where that sideways text came from.

      One of my ex’s was the same way, a notorious cyber cheater but there wasn’t any woman sharing penis pics or flirty text messages with me. Mr. Jekyl got sloppy.

      Memo to anyone out there doing dirt on their spouse or significant other: say “no” when using their computer for Internet use and the question of remembering passwords comes up. 😮

  5. Damn, you found me out!!

    I’m kidding but real talk, some men do it, others like me wouldn’t even think twice.

    Surely you know Carmen, most men suffer from the “might be something. Better” disease.

    When with a woman, its either for me or it isn’t. Until it isn’t, meaning we’ve parted ways, why be messy with texts and emails to another woman?

    Makes no sense to me and can cause more problems than it may be worth.

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