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The Familiar


When the sex is so good, you’re ready for bed by 9pm on a Saturday night.

It’s been 7 months and after a disappointing random encounter with someone new, I decided it’s best to stick with what I know.

After nearly 20 years, he has never ever let me down.

Mmm, Papi.

Until there’s a cure for the dating hangovers, I will not be starved of multiple orgasmic episodes.

Carmen Jones

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Hangover - a let down following great excitement or excess. Wow. This one sentence describes nearly all of my dating and relationship experiences!

I'm a 30 year-old woman muddling through the Los Angeles dating scene and yes - Believe all that you've heard about the screwed up men and women in La-La Land.

This blog is of my actual experiences that will either make you chuckle, laugh out loud or maybe say "aw.....".

If your dating hangovers seem worse than the next person's, read on, post a comment and enjoy!



    1. LOL, you referred to your BOB as your cutty buddy!?!?! HI-LA-RI-OUS. Love it and hey, you know what you’re getting each time for sure. With or without batteries or is that just me?

    1. Melzie, satisfied indeed and perhaps it was the long stint or I was just a ripe 40 year-old woman, but I had a pretty spectacular time with the familiar. =)

  1. Well, I mean damn. I’m not mad at you and as long as you’re not messing around with a bunch of random men, have at it.

    1. An_gel, that’s what I keep thinking in my mind – eliminate the random dudes and I’ve accomplished two things…. not adding to the notches on my bedpost and not risking disappointment. The life of a single woman in her sexual prime; the struggle is real.

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