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That One Connection
I’m addicted to him. I realize this addiction after my latest encounter with Papi just a while ago, and while we have been at the sexual affair for almost 20 years, the unthinkable seems to be happening. It just keeps getting better and this feeling is what frightens me the most. Incredibly sensual and the chemistry is always intense. The kind of interactions that most people will never experience in a life time. We continue to explore and no take each other’s bodies to another level. So tonight, it was my turn to be the dominant as I talked and nanny instructed him through each and every touch, kiss and…
- Friends with Benefits, Settling or Compromising?, Sex/Romance, Single Girl Problems, The Non Committal Man or Woman
The 18 Year Situation
I only want him for the sex
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But at Least She HAS a Man!
“Finally, I have met my soul mate. He is a true lover of the Lord, engages me in deep and thought-provoking conversations and compliments me constantly. Never have I had a man tell me how beautiful I am several times a day, not even my ex-husband and I can’t recall the last time I have ever felt so wanted by a man. Sure, he’s got a few minor things to work out but I’m not worried about any of that.” Isn’t this lovely? This was a conversation I had a few weeks ago with a co-worker who’s in her 50’s y as she gushed about how much in love she…
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No, We Can’t Be Friends
For some reason, I have tried to convince myself that being more flexible and allowing for change in life will often result in good. Yet when it comes to dating and my relationships, this thought process always backfires and causes more headache than is worth. Some people often tell me that I'm a bit too extreme especially when it comes to men, and the "you should at least keep him as a friend" bullshit comes up. If I started out being interested in someone for relationship potential and things don't work out, what's the point? Now I'm not talking about the person you may have spent a lot of time…
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Suffering From Dating Burnout
If only I had the energy to share the plethora of events that took place this past weekend, and normally there is never a dull moment. I accepted a double dog dare and ended up riding a mechanical bull for the first time, successfully managing to keep all body parts inside of my clothing. Next, I had the pleasure of taking in the sights of Marina del Rey while talking about real estate dreams in between several snack runs to a few 7 Eleven stores which led up to the closing ceremonies of the weekend where my fears of becoming the latest nightclub shooting casualty because someone had a crazy temper and hood mentality. Oh- the last…
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The F%ck Buddy
Some of us may be confused about our status, some may know exactly what you are to a man or woman but are in denial and there are some who have never heard of this phrase, the Fuck Buddy (FB). I know exactly what it is, I’ve created one. Not to be confused with the unrelationship status, this is a person who serves one main purpose. Fuck me and do it well. Now before you start judging me, let me explain that I have the needs. These needs consist of me getting my world rocked, my hair blown back and on a regular basis This is where my buddy,…
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Until Something Better Comes Along…. update!
Uh oh….. Of course you all remember me writing about the really cool guy? You know, the one who is great in many ways but has three major deal breakers that I cant seem to budge on? So the last week or so, I’ve noticed he has gone radio silent. Not completely ignoring me or anything, but the couple of times a day text exchanges and one a day phone calls have gone to every other day or so. Not a problem really, because I already have him the state of the union address, right? Well…. Yesterday I put the feelers out there and sent him a “Hey stranger” text.…
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Not Desperate, Just Bored!
If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again. Many of us women have already figured out that dating is as good a feeling as that pap smear tool after being in a freezer, yet still, we keep trying until we get it right. Hence, my second time around trying my hand at online dating. For those of you who know me, you’re probably wondering why I haven’t just given up. For those of you who don’t know me, by the time I’ve posted 20 entries on this blog, you’ll also wonder why I haven’t given up. As cliché as it sounds, I decided to get back online in hopes…
- Guest Posts, My Dating Hangovers, Plenty of Fail, Red Flags, Relationship 101, Single Parent Dating, THIS is Why I'm Single!, Uncategorized
What is a Dating Hangover?
Hang·over • \hang-ô-ver\ •noun A person or thing left over from or influenced by a past age; Something remaining from a previous time or state. A let down, after a period of excitement Symptoms: – Fatigue, weakness, pain, headache, nausea and vomiting – Depression, anxiety – Irritability Now surely, everyone at some point (some more than others) in their lives has experienced these types of feelings and I’ll be the first to admit – it sucks! My hangovers have left me feeling like crap to the point where I couldn’t function for a couple of hours, feeling as if I was shutting down physically, emotionally and mentally. Yes, these types of…
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